Questions of Answers, Survival, Hair, and Short Stuff

 

“The smallest things can make you feel good about being alive.”

-- Marty Rubin

The Longs:

Why do so many people post questions wanting answers and don't tell you anything?

Lack of good communication skills. Before you ask a question, ask it of yourself. Assume you know nothing about yourself or your experiences. Now, does the question make sense enough for some stranger to answer it? If not, expand on the information provided. Questions asked out of context get answers out of context. Don’t get upset with the person trying to answer a bad question, be upset because you offered up a bad question.

What would happen if a restaurant sold both Coke and Pepsi products?

The end of civilization as we know it.

"Criticism is priceless advice". Do you agree with the statement?

Yes, especially if comes from someone you respect, like yourself. If you honestly exercise it upon yourself, you will learn volumes. Most other people are at least as damaged as the critique they care to provide. For example, the constantly offended offer critique constantly. 

How do people give money to God?

Buy food for the poor. 

Does being more social make us happier?

It certainly makes me happier. I love being around people, especially with a good cigar and a tumbler of bourbon. I love watching the parade of peaceful humanity, of laughing friends, of lovers holding hands. Socializing with the masses makes me happy that I am alive to experience it. When I’m around a group of happy people, the misery of others can be put aside, if only for a short while.

“It wasn’t that she necessarily wanted to “socialize” at the bonfire, but she wanted to broadcast to the general population that her antisocial behavior was a personal choice not a sentence to social leprosy.”

-- J.D. Stroube

What is so wrong with me that I'm willing to stay with a man who disrespects, cheats, lies, doesn't work and, in general, treats me like crap?

Fear of leaving, being on your own, and trying to find a really good man. The fear is misplaced. The easiest thing you can do for your own happiness is to get shed of all the drama. It is a choice, all you have to do is make it. Starting over isn’t that hard. You’ve been there and done that, so do it again, only smarter.

Why is it that when I talk good about Trump, my integrity and self-confidence get attacked?

Start hanging around with a different crowd.

Why do we need to be honest?

What will being dishonest bring you? If you think that’s enough, then go for it. I’d be wary of the bad karma dishonesty garners one, however. But, it is a choice you must make.

Why did my boyfriend stop having any sex and will not go to bed with me?

STD?

Who’s in the wrong? Boyfriend got caught texting women on multiple dating sites. I had a long conversation & I asked him to remove the women from his phone. He’s religious & he swore to God he's done with the sites, but I needed the women gone. He then broke up with me.

Oh, he is so in the wrong. As far as him being religious, be real. There are special places in hell for guys like me and him.  You should be happy he's gone.

“Holding onto something that's gone only makes a sickness inside.”

-- Nora Roberts

Who, where, what, and why should I show all my kindness to?

Everyone, everywhere, everything, because it’s the right thing to do, so do it selflessly. If you expect nothing in return. How good it makes you feel tops any good karma that may come your way.

How do you escape an anaconda after it has wrapped you up?

Bite through the spine. You will break teeth, but it’s better than the alternative.

What are the things you should never apologize for?

Anything you were not responsible for. The only caveat to this, for me, is apologizing for those who think you’re wrong. “I’m sorry you feel that way. You might want to look at it again.” I do this just to make them feel a bit better, but you really don’t have to apologize for them not understanding, that would be their issue. I ran into this in the military. I was constantly sorry that people were incapable of taking the time to understand my reasoning.

What are your thoughts on unmarried people calling each other husband and wife?

It saves a lot of time explaining to strangers why you’ve been together for 20 years and aren’t married. It’s just easier to say, “And, here’s the wife.”

Why do humans have armpit and pubic hair?

Actually, we have hair all over our bodies. Remember, we did once lean forward on our knuckles, grunt, screw our brains out like monkeys, and throw feces at our enemy.

“Interviewer: 'So Frank, you have long hair. Does that make you a woman?'

Frank Zappa: 'You have a wooden leg. Does that make you a table?”

-- Frank Zappa

Why is life not fully about money? I'm 9 years old.

Because it’s supposed to be about learning and, especially, about learning to be truly happy always and in all things. Working simply allows you to live so you can accomplish learning and finding true happiness.

What are the steps in drawing a conclusion?

Research and be knowledgeable about the object of the question, make educated suppositions drawn from the research and knowledge concerning the object, and be right in the final conclusion you draw.

If today is our last day on earth, did you have a good life?

Absolutely! I’m truly disappointed the ride is over, but there is so much more to come.

Why are physically attractive women less likely to have sexual intercourse within the first few weeks of a romantic relationship than unattractive women?

They don’t feel they have to. Their priorities are different because they feel they’ll always be attractive to most men, so what’s the rush? Many “unattractive” women, on the other hand, seem to be constantly on the hunt.

Has a woman ever been the aggressor in a relationship? If so, what did she do?

Yes, the submissive usually have to address the aggressor, or dominant, as “Mistress” and there’s usually a lot of begging, and a belt, rope, handcuffs, and/or a whip involved, as I understand it.

"Contemporary feminism cut itself off from history and bankrupted itself when it spun its puerile, paranoid fantasy of male oppressors and female sex-object victims. Woman is the dominant sex."

-- Camille Paglia

And, the Shorts: 

Do the rich do what they love or love what they do?

Uh… it’s basically the same thing.

How do you answer "Who gave you the right to be this pretty?"

God! It always works for me.

What if I just like being a whore? I like giving blowjobs, having sex, and having no relationship.

Phone number?

Did love become necessary in sex?

Yes, when I fell in love with the person I had sex with.

Why do people fall in love only with looks?

They hang out in the shallow end of the pool.

What quantifies having a good life?

Are you truly happy? Tada!

Is 32 too young for a 45-year-old man?

Nope.

I left my ex-boyfriend because I was in a one-sided relationship, the only one giving effort, and he rarely had time for me. Was this the right decision to do? I'm overthinking it.

Nope, you are spot on. But, stop thinking about it.

What makes a woman have sex with a man?

Desire.

Is it a sin for a 14 or 15-year-old son to have sex with his mother when she is sleeping or unconscious in Hinduism?

It’s pretty much wrong, period. 

What's the negative effect of unprotected sex?

Children and disease… but, I repeat myself.

My on and off ex has been doing massage and sex behind my back (prostitution). She denies it but I have proof. She doesn't use condoms. She keeps calling and leaving messages trying to reconnect. Should I get back to her?

Do you feel like a “submissive” tool?

What is a thing about being rich that sucks?

Taxes.

What does it mean when a guy tells you he doesn't want a relationship because he doesn't want to settle? But still wants to have sex with me and doesn't want me dating other guys. Does he feel he deserves better than me? I asked him but he denied it

Tell him what he really wants is a relationship on his terms. No.

Does God love you if, but, until, or when?

Unconditionally, even if, like a father, he has to punish you so you learn. 

Why are prostitutes frowned upon, but not those who buy their services?

I have never frowned upon the oldest profession.  I respect their work.

What would you prefer to know, how many sexual or romantic partners your ex has had?

Personally, I really don’t give a fig. The more the merrier.

I recently discovered my girlfriend was sexting her ex about 2 months ago. What should I do?

Tell her you're aware of it and dump her.

What do you think of having sex with your best friend?

Better than thinking about it, I’m actually able to do it. 

If you become God for 10 seconds, what would you do?

I would thank me.

“Thank God for allowing you to see another day. No matter what, keep trusting, keep believing, be strong, have hope. The best is yet to come.”

-- Germany Kent

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch, it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either opinion any more right or wrong than the other. An opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form opinions of their own, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint. 

It is my fervent hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions and while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion, in an arena of mutual respect, concerning those opinions put forth. After over twenty years with military intelligence, I have come to believe engaging each other in this manner and in this arena is the way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience, and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with the United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. He spent 17 years, following his service career, working with the premier, world-renowned, Institutional Review Board helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. Ordained 1n 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As the weapon for his war on intolerance he chose the pen, and wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's own personal, spiritual, path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He currently resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as a chaplain at the regional medical center.

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