Living in the Now (Updated from 11/30/2016)

"We are living in a culture entirely hypnotized by the illusion of time, in which the so-called present moment is felt as nothing but an infinitesimal hairline between an all-powerfully causative past and an absorbingly important future."

-- Alan W. Watts

For me, living in the now means living between the ticks of a clock. It means an ability to focus on the air as its being beaten into submission by the wings of a bee or to simply pick a point of water as it approaches in a fast-moving stream, and follow as it passes and continues out of sight. Even before his death in 1973, Alan Watts rightly understood that our culture had lost touch with the present, the now. We were fully absorbed in creating a better, faster, easier, and less expensive, disposable life for our disposable world. If you don't believe me, I'm sure there's an "app" for it.

We move much faster than yesterday. I'm sure online dating, email, texting, and other technological ills of "mass impersonal communication" weren't even being dreamed of when I was young. Our ability to link to the internet at our local coffee shop means that, even when we take a break from our hectic day, we never really take a break. We find ourselves constantly on the move, constantly accelerating through our lives... of which there is so precious little.

"Oh dear! Oh dear! I shall be too late!"

-- The White Rabbit (1865), "Alice's Adventures in Wonderland"

Do you use a calculator, or do you do the math in your head or on paper? Do you use spell check or the dictionary? Grammar Check, The Essential Writer's Companion (mine's the 1997 edition), or Roget's A-Z Thesaurus? When was the last time you read a book and actually caught all of the spelling, punctuation, and grammatical mistakes in it? It seems large publishing houses don't spend money proofing an author like they used to... and let's not even get started on newspapers. The news industry would be better served to learn how to be ethical journalists before they work on their proofing and grammar. 

Today's journalism is a journey back in time to the late 1800s and "yellow journalism" which was more fiction than fact and was soon distrusted by the public. We are not to be bothered thinking for ourselves and separating truth from bullshit, that's what we have governments, universities, and machines for, right? Why do we try to struggle with independent thought when we can allow ourselves to be programmed and indoctrinated?  It kind of makes you think, doesn't it?

We have become so busy in our jobs, our leisure, our family, and our friends, we have no time to watch the moon long enough to see it move between branches of a tree, much less watch the night sky long enough to find the planets. We never sit and try to see the beating wings of a hummingbird. We never try to live between the moments, much less in them. We are too busy trying to become... when we should simply be.

"All the Buddhas of all the ages have been telling you a very simple fact: Be – don’t try to become. Within these two words, be and becoming, your whole life is contained. Being is enlightenment, becoming is ignorance."

-- Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh

"Where do you have to be that is more important than you are right now, this very second?" This is the question I often put to my PTSD group, at the medical center, when I meet with them each Sunday morning. Inevitably, someone will mention watching the television, reading a book, and the like. I excuse them to go on about their preferred business. They usually either stay or return, which opens their eyes and is a lesson to the group. The more important question is why we feel we need to be somewhere else, and is it a valid or simply a desire to escape the now, where we belong?

Where we want to be is much different than where we know we have to be, or should be, at this very second.  Many times, where we have to be is really where we want to be, we just haven't wrapped our minds around the fact that neither really matters - wherever we go, there we are.  One who pays attention usually finds we are where we are for a reason.  Where I am is there. How I got there, what I'm doing there, and when I can leave there, are all questions of lesser importance to why I am there, and why I am there is more insignificant to the fact that I am.  Next time you get on the elevator and press the button for the first floor, but the elevator takes you up to the third floor, maybe you should get off and see what's happening.  Life might have brought you there for a cause.  You might need to witness something or someone.  Or, they might just need to witness you.

Life is now.

There was never a time when your life was not now,

nor will there ever be.

-- Eckhart Tolle

When we look at the world around us, what do we really see? We look at flowers in a garden, oh how pretty, but have we seen how absolutely marvelous they are... up close? We look at a beautiful woman and admire her great legs, but do we see the tell-tale signs of physical or mental abuse, the cries for help screaming from her eyes? We look at the children playing in the street, but do we see their hunger and the mom working two or three jobs? Do we ever truly stop to smell the roses, or do we simply look as we pass by? Do we ever wonder why it's important to pay attention?

"It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see."

-- Henry David Thoreau

Living in the now means living in it all. It means we don't get to pick and choose what comes at us, but we have to take life as it comes, at the moment. We have to take the bad, of which there is so much, and learn to stop and enjoy the happiness and beauty which comes our way. We tend to look at the ugliness more than we see the beauty and happiness within it, for even in the ugly we can find a beauty that can inspire. We need to force ourselves to stop, focus, and see the wonders of the world, good and bad.

The present moment is filled with joy and happiness.

If you are attentive, you will see it.

-- Thich Nhat Hahn

Why does it benefit us to live our lives with blinders on?  Why do we have to be led, like sheep to the slaughter by those we elect to protect us, and why do we need protection when we are all perfectly capable?  Why does it benefit us to rush forward and miss the beauty of life around us?  Why do we live everywhere, every time, except in the "now" in which we belong?  Why do we feel we can move forward on our path if we can't even stop to deal with our present?  Why do we think we can imagine a future if we can't even see the facts of the present with our own eyes?  I'm certain you can come up with many of your own questions of "Why?"

As you move forward through your busy life, try to take a moment, smell the roses, be attentive and see the world around you.  Learn to ask yourself, "Why?"  Why am I here, now?  Why do I have to be somewhere that is so much more important, and if it truly is, why am I not there instead of here?  So many questions to ask while I stand at the cusp of the abyss, smiling, staring off into infinity.

"No valid plans for the future can be made by those who have no capacity for living now."

-- Alan W. Watts

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch, it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either opinion any more right or wrong than the other. An opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form opinions of their own, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint. 

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions and while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion, in an arena of mutual respect, concerning those opinions put forth. After over twenty years with military intelligence, I have come to believe engaging each other in this manner and in this arena is the way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience, and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with the United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and, finally, a senior manager. He spent 17 years, following his service career, working with the premier, world-renowned, Western Institutional Review Board helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research.

Ordained 1n 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As the weapon for his war on intolerance he chose the pen, and wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's own personal, spiritual, path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He currently resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony: tolerantpastor@gmail.com