So, Sexy Is In? (Updated post from 6/12/14)

 

"Darling, I never step on the scale. 

Because the scale doesn’t measure sexy."

-- Unknown

You betchya, by golly wow!  But, let's really consider what we're looking at, in the image.  We have an image of a woman down to the top of her breasts.  What lies below?  There are quite a few "full-figured" attractive women.  So, let's consider what we see.  I see a woman that has taken the time to have her hair styled.  I see a woman that has spent a few bucks on a stylish outfit.  I see a woman that really knows how to accent the lips God gave her.  And, I see a woman that has practiced the art of posing that "come hither" look.  I won't even try to be delicate about this:  Her ass might be using the bar stool as a suppository but, as a real man, all I see is a woman that really cares how she looks.  

I think we pay too much attention to whether a woman measures up to the current societal "approved" body type rage.  How about just having a bit of self-respect and using the most out of what God gave you?  

I went through most of elementary, junior high, and high school with a plus-size girl.  She was, and is, a good friend.  She was, and I don't think still is, a party animal.  Everybody loved her.  When she went into the Presidio enlisted club, in Monterey, drinks hit the table and soldiers had to be fought off.  It isn't always about looks, it is always about presentation.  I mean, have you seen the make-over shows?  Goodness, the transformations with the right makeup, hairstyle, and clothing, are incredible!

God gave woman a gift.  If a woman chooses to ignore that gift, then she shouldn't cry foul when she can't find a man.  Stop hanging around bars, with the rest of the trailer trash, looking for the ideal man. Start dressing up, putting on a little makeup, having the mop, which you call hair, styled, and learning how to walk, talk, and act like a woman.  Men can address the seductive beads of perspiration, on her chest and cleavage, after they get her approval for a follow-on date.  And just as a side note, the ideal man doesn't hang around bars looking for a life partner, so, why are you there looking for a man?

Okay, I was just getting started.  Are you ready for the real rant?  (Big breath...)

Men, if you think you're immune to all of this, think again.  Most of you slovenly miscreants can't find a quality woman because you rarely find the sober ability to part your ass cheeks long enough to pull your head out and take a breath of fresh air, much less bathe, shave, put on some fine threads, and, yes, learn to walk, talk, and act so a woman, of any worth, would give you a first, much less a second, look.

Try getting a haircut and using a comb on what's left.  Try wearing pants that don't droop half past your butt crack and, by the way, boxer shorts worn in plain sight are not a fashion statement to anyone, except the person wearing them and it certainly isn't a sign of good breeding (It's come to my attention it's a sign for something else in prison. Hey, sailor!). Let me say that hiking your pants up is aimed at the teenagers that let them droop too low to run in.  You guys over thirty that do it, well, really?  GROW THE HELL UP!  The fact that you think you can act like you're eighteen is just, well, sad.  Any woman that thinks this idea of maturity is "cute" really needs a serious reality check.  God was kind enough to give a man two heads, how about using the one with a brain in it occasionally.  

If men and women really want to be different, try acting like adults, or at least like people that give a damn about who they are, how they look, and where they are going in life.  Consider this after you wake up from your drug and alcohol-induced coma tomorrow morning, preferably, over a cup of hot coffee and a fashion magazine.

The point I'm trying to make here is very simple.  Sexy has always been in.  It doesn't matter what your body shape is.  It matters who you are, your personality, and how you present yourself.  If your goal in life is to be trailer trash, hey, I respect that.  Go for it!  I have to admit, in the military, I've been there and done you.  But, at least be the best trailer trash you can be, and please don't bitch to the rest of us about how miserable your life is.  It is your life!  If you want to change it, make better choices.

Okay, I think I'm done.

"I have an hourglass figure, too... 

Mine just Contains more sand."

-- Unknown

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch, it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either opinion any more right or wrong than the other. An opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form opinions of their own, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint. 

It is my fervent hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions and while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion, in an arena of mutual respect, concerning those opinions put forth. After over twenty years with military intelligence, I have come to believe engaging each other in this manner and in this arena is the way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience, and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with the United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and, finally, a senior manager. He spent 17 years, following his service career, working with the premier, world-renowned, Western Institutional Review Board helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research.

Ordained 1n 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As the weapon for his war on intolerance he chose the pen, and wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's own personal, spiritual, path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He currently resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

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