God's Rainbow Promise (Updated from July 5, 2015)

 

"I would truly like to know how the "rainbow" (which is God's covenant with Mankind promising he will never destroy the world again) became the international symbol for Gay Rights. I am all for equality but it distresses me that whenever people look at a rainbow now, they do NOT think of God and the promise He made to us..."

-- TMB

"I will always look at the rainbow and think of God's promise. I don't think the gays' use of any color changes the Christian belief system. Mattel (I believe it was) created a Rainbow Bright toy years ago, and I never related it to God's promise. Purple is the color for Alzheimer's awareness, orange for Leukemia, etc., so if they had chosen purple or orange, someone would find that offensive. I think the bigger issue in our world is when are we going to all stop finding things to be offended by?"

-- LBB

Ask and ye shall receive!  Once again, I went out to my readership for a topic. Once again, they have not failed to come through for me.  Two ladies I know, have questions of which I, of course, have my own, humble opinion.  I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours. Kidding.

God's "rainbow promise" is from the book of Genesis.  It is referred to as the Noahic Covenant.  After the great flood, God makes an unconditional covenant with Noah, his descendants, every living creature, and the earth.  The "covenant" promises to never "destroy" the Earth by a flood, again, no matter how wicked man might become.  God sealed this promise with a rainbow, so the covenant would always be remembered.  Of course, this presupposed that man would always hold the word of God dear, and we all know how that has worked out. I thought the rainbow pointed to a pot of gold.  Silly me.

An important point to note? God does not promise never to destroy the earth again.  The promise is to never do it with water. So, man is not off the hook, when it comes to God's wickedness.  Watch out for fire, asteroids, earthquakes, famine, plague, pestilence, and more of the worst you can imagine. But, water?  Not so much. 

Perhaps, with more and more gays looking to the Abrahamic religions for answers, salvation, and faith, the rainbow might, once again, remind us all, of the covenant, the promise, God made.  But, for the time being, we will have to practice patience, understanding, tolerance, and love of Jesus.

My two ladies remember God's promise.  They look to the sky, after a rain, and remind us of a story, a parable, handed down through the ages.  Its truth is based solely on one's faith in the omnipotent power of God.  The ladies remind us of another "bigger issue." When we will all stop finding things to be offended by.  Being offended is the nature of mankind.  We offend, and we are offended. One usually follows the other in a vicious circle of selfish desire.  

I constantly refer to the League of the Perpetually Offended.  There is an old adage. It says that you can't save the poor from their lot, as it is up to them to save themselves.  The definition of "poor" is always based on a monetary sense, but we forget the many things we can be poor in.  

Tolerance is something man is sorely lacking in.  It is easier to be offended than to be tolerant. Tolerance requires us to exercise our brain, for something other than our selfish attitudes and desires.  It is what causes even the faithful to forget scripture. We sit in judgment over our fellow beings, voicing condemnation, and God's wrath in burning fires of hell, for all eternity, to those who don't measure up to the holier-than-thou interpretation of scripture that contradicts everything we think is holy.  I would say the bigger issue is that nobody pays attention to the more important messages of their scripture.

Just about every religion known touts a kinder gentler attitude toward one another. A more loving philosophy of life and the respect we are sorely lacking, for so many things.  I think we need to be more understanding.  We need to remember the Bible is simply a book. A collection of stories which, taken as a whole, is supposed to reflect the peace, love, understanding, and tolerance Jesus brought to us.  We try, too hard, to read too much into it.  The lessons of Jesus Christ are not that difficult. They were never meant to be. And the Bible? God promised never to write anything down, ever again, because man misinterprets it. Man wrote the Bible, and we misinterpret it... all the time.

…God said, "This is the sign of the covenant which I am making between Me and you and every living creature that is with you, for all successive generations; I set My bow in the cloud, and it shall be for a sign of a covenant between Me and the earth. "It shall come about, when I bring a cloud over the earth, that the bow will be seen in the cloud,… and I will remember My covenant, which is between Me and you and every living creature of all flesh; and never again shall the water become a flood to destroy all flesh. "When the bow is in the cloud, then I will look upon it, to remember the everlasting covenant between God and every living creature of all flesh that is on the earth." And God said to Noah, "This is the sign of the covenant which I have established between Me and all flesh that is on the earth."

-- Genesis 9:12-17

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com

Questioning Reasoning, Understanding, Right, Special, Thankful, and Divorce

“The frame, the definition, is a type of context. And context, as we said before, determines the meaning of things. There is no such thing as the view from nowhere, or from everywhere, for that matter. Our point of view biases our observation, consciously and unconsciously. You cannot understand the view without the point of view.”

-- Noam Shpancer

Honestly, at this point, is there even a reason I shouldn’t give up?

Some explanation would help. Give up what?

Do good people do something or nothing?

Good people should do something. If they decide to do nothing they are good people with no balls. If you want to be recognized as “good people,” you need to put it all out front. Let your voice be heard. And, more importantly, let your actions tell those around you, it is okay to buck the system.

What is the term for someone who constantly relies on others to make decisions and then complains about the outcome?

A clinging little bitch. Just saying.

How can motivation be maintained during times of despair and failure?

If the motivation is moving along at 100 MPH, it is limping along during despair and failure, even though failure should help them to learn why they are failing.

What are the characteristics of an emotionally intelligent person? How can one differentiate between a genuinely emotionally intelligent person and someone who is manipulative and claims to be emotionally intelligent?

Question 1: Fun. Question 2: The manipulative is not much fun.

I don't want to be in my religion anymore (Catholic). What should I do?

I was raised a Catholic. During my military service, I decided that organized religion was too structured for loving God. I chose to go out on my own and find my own way. You need to decide what you are going to believe. I decided that my God was something that the church was not recognizing. The more the better. I believe in a God, a power that created the universe. It is an omnipotent power that no one can deny, truth be known. It is a power all of us are connected to. And if you recognize this power, the better for you.

“Prayer is not asking. It is a longing of the soul. It is daily admission of one's weakness. It is better in prayer to have a heart without words than words without a heart.”

-- Mahatma Gandhi

Scientists want their "scientific method" to "understand" reality. But, what is "understanding", without practical significance and results? Don't scientists sacrifice all practical progress and knowledge on the altar of abstract "understanding"?

Well stated.

What is the term for not being informed or aware of something?

Ignorant.

What is the term for someone who lacks their own opinions?

Ignorant.

What is the term for when someone delays making a decision in order to have more time to think?

Smart.

Do you like nice things?

Yes.

How do atheists cope with the concept of God's wrath if they do not believe in Him?

Faith.

“My One Word provides us with a lens, with a new way of seeing. It’s a tool to train our eyes. It helps us frame the way we process the world around us and what happens to us. And”

-- Mike Ashcraft

How do I know if I am with the right person?

Do you love them? Will you die for them? You took a second or two to think. Are they the right person or not? Will you die for them?

Why would I rather die than be around humans?

Why are you still here? Either do the nasty or ask yourself why you are still here. If you would rather die, then the act of suicide is late to come. So, why are you still here? There must be a reason, and you must find that reason. It is a non-round trip to kill one’s self. Maybe you should think about it, a bit longer. Death, especially suicide, will get you no life in the hereafter. You are dead. That’s it. Again, maybe you should think about it. 

How should one respond to the statement "it's just my opinion"?

“Well, your opinion sucks.”

How can one increase their fear and trust in God?

Never fear God. Be good always, and always ask forgiveness for transgressions. God is a loving God, no matter what religion says. He is the Father.

Readers comment: Fill your life with the word of God, be alone with God for prayers and meditation, exercise faith and you will find yourself becoming God-fearing.

My reply: The last thing I ever want to do is become fearful of my loving God.

Do non-believers realize how offensive being an atheist is as there suggesting that one's deceased relatives and friends are essentially in a void of eternal nothingness?

Ignore atheist beliefs. Believe only what you have in your heart.

What is a respectful way to ask an atheist not to impose their beliefs on others?

It doesn’t matter. They will do what they want, especially after you made your point. Being respectful may work for a minimum of the atheist population, but the majority rules. Kind of like theists.

“Religion is the outcome of human weakness or the limitation of human knowledge.”

-- Bhagat Singh

Do you think you're special?

I am what I am. If people think I’m special, so be it. If they don’t, it’s another opinion. Either way, it doesn't matter who I am. You can like me or not.

Should we be worried about A.I. taking over certain jobs?

Oh, hell yes.

Why do people tend to live more selfishly as society becomes more modern?

In America, we haven’t really changed our selfishness for several decades. More to the point, America is becoming less selfish, except when it comes to politics. Politics makes most people lose their minds or reminds them they don’t have one.

Why are scientists all such pathological liars? Is it because they really don't know anything at all, but have to pretend that they do?

You must not be a scientist.

How do I help someone who speaks to people like they are stupid?

They “speak” like they’re stupid, but they’re only ignorant. If you want to help them, educate them. You can help them to see the facts.

Why does nobody like good people?

This question is a bit... negative. I like good people. As a matter of fact, I choose to hang around with good people, all the time. So, If I like good people and I’m not a nobody, then someone, me, likes good people. This makes your question inaccurate. Just saying.

“A truly good person will speak truth, act with truth, and stand for Truth. A truly good person is not afraid to think from their heart; therefore, allowing nonconformist decisions, viewpoints, and perspectives to lead their life. By following their heart, they stand with their conscience, and only with God.”

-- Suzy Kassem

Would you rather be thankful, for every little thing happening in your life, or decide not to be satisfied with what you don't have, and want more?

I would rather be thankful for my life, and work toward what I want. You can be thankful for life and still have desires.

If a teacher is bragging about a specific student failing a subject he teaches, can it be said that he deliberately caused it? Context: He said that he likes to delay and cull students in his subject. He is even bragging that Student A failed.

Bragging that a student failed, is not the mind of a truly, good teacher. A good teacher will help the student to succeed. If they want to brag, brag about the help they gave, that moved the student forward.

Why do things that I wrote on the internet a few years ago when I was 18-20 years old seem extremely stupid and silly to me now?

You were young and lacking wisdom.

Is revenge harsh justice, even after a while?

Justice has little to do with revenge. Justice is what society expects to deliver to its criminals. It isn’t revenge, it is justice. The court system, these days, tends to forget about justice and lets the criminals go so they can create more carnage. It is a sad reflection of our long-standing system of justice.

What is humankind’s greatest weakness?

Charity.

What do you think of people who don't know they're alive? The roof could cave in on them and they wouldn't move a muscle. Everything is the same with these creatures.

They know they are alive, they just don’t care. If the roof caves in on them, it is what it is. If the roof caving in on me, it is what it is, but I would try to move my ass to safety in an expeditious manner.

“In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on.”

-- Robert Frost

My wife divorced me because I talked with a woman she doesn't like. What can I do now?

Find a mature woman to marry. It sounds like she was looking for an excuse to dump you.

My ex-wife lied to the police and courts for a quick divorce 3 years ago. Why does it still bother me?

My wife did the same thing. It took me many years to forgive her, and my part in the entire drama. When you can accept your fault in the scenario, it becomes easier to get over it.

What do you believe is the meaning or purpose of life?

To learn. We learn throughout our life, even if we don’t recognize it.

Is this world worth being born into?

It is the only choice we have been given (like you actually had choices). If you can’t make it here, as simple as it is, how do you expect to make it somewhere more difficult? 

Why might a student cry and apologize to their professor during graduation?

An epiphany. The professor was always on their side, even when it seemed they weren’t.

A guy cheats on his girlfriend with me, confesses to me that he can't stop thinking about me, and finally turns me down. What's his deal?

He is full of shit. He can’t stop thinking about you because he expects more great sex from you. Why did he turn you down? He got tired of you and found some new stuff. If he cheats on her, he will cheat on you. Cheating with a guy who has a girlfriend is a sleazy way to get laid, even if you like the guy… a lot. You are looking to get screwed. (Hah! that wasn't on purpose.) 

“Never lie, steal, cheat, or drink. But if you must lie, lie in the arms of the one you love. If you must steal, steal away from bad company. If you must cheat, cheat death. And if you must drink, drink in the moments that take your breath away”

-- Will Smith

 

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com

Questioning Thoughts, Yourself, Stupid, Grades, Trump, and Sluts

 

“Biology gives you a brain. Life turns it into a mind.”

-- Jeffrey Eugenides

Are thoughts connected to the mind or the brain?

Thoughts are connected to the mind and the mind is located in the brain.

Why did my son grow up to be such a loser and an idiot?

Good, mindful, parenting? There is a saying about an apple not falling far from the tree. If the tree doesn’t nurture the apple…

Why shouldn’t your dumb ass burn for eternity?

I’m not dead… yet.

Is it important for people to accept themselves for who they truly are, rather than trying to change for others?

You can’t change others if the others see that you’re full of shit. If you accept who you truly are you have a greater chance to change others. Of course, they must be weak-minded, or you are ready with a great argument, to convince them to change.

Why would I rather die than have to work?

You’re terminally lazy, or you’ve misplaced the clue?

Why is life so stupid?

Life is what you make of it. You have settled on your life being stupid. So be it. I like my life to have a meaningful purpose so I can work through it. It makes waking up to life have more meaning.

“Talk sense to a fool and he calls you foolish.”

-- Euripides

Is it possible for anyone to truly be themselves in this day and age? Why do people often say "Be yourself"?

I pride myself on being truly myself. No one has to say, “Be yourself.” I hang with a crowd of retired military. They are all about being true to themselves, or we tell them they are full of shit.

What will be enough for humans to live a peaceful life?

A purpose.

Which is worse, taking one really stupid risk, or never taking any risks... at all?

You will never move forward if you don't take risks. But, taking a stupid risk? What you are about to do, must concern life or death, to make it worth the risk. Stupid risks are not worth the loss. Taking a risk should leave you on your feet if you fail.

Everyone always thinks I'm a stupid person. That makes me feel stupid. How do I deal with this?

If you’re stupid, then, so be it. If you’re not, ignore the ignorance of other people.

What are the most effective ways to improve emotional intelligence?

Stay the hell away from love. If love does nothing else, it puts your "emotions" into a tailspin. Your intelligence becomes grunts and stupid looks. You spend money you don’t have and make promises you are hard-pressed to keep. You become a mess.

Have you done anything to improve the world in your life?

For 23 years I was a member of a cadre of people that kept the balance of power from becoming a nuclear war. That improved the world for everybody, including me.

Reader comment: I really do not see the world improving. It looks to me like it is getting worst because of people like you. Who think they are angels with wing to fly to heaven. Please tell God that when you are released and see what he says.

My reply: You suffer from ignorance, by the look of your comment. The fact you are still here to toss me shit is the curse I inherited by helping to keep world peace. You are welcome.  

“Total annihilation has a way of sharpening people's minds.”

-- Yuval Noah Harari

Are you stupid or something?

Something. I’m pretty sure I’m "something" because I know I'm not stupid.

If an IQ of 135 is considered extremely high, why do people tend to think I'm stupid?

What your Intelligence Quotient says, is no reflection of how you act around other people. You could be acting like the intelligent doof. A point, if I can make one. Be the intelligent doof. Let people think you’re stupid. Nobody around you needs to know that you are extremely intelligent. It is a secret they will get clues to as they hang around you. Have fun with it.

Do you value being honest?

I certainly don’t value being dishonest.

Do you believe in a supreme being?

I believe in a “supreme power,” not a being, that created everything. If it is a “being,” it is beyond our comprehension as lowly humans. I will continue to believe in a power that created matter in all the universes. This is a “God” I can wrap my mind around.

Do we all have beliefs, even if we claim to have none?

Yes. If you believe what you see, hear, and feel. If you don’t buy into any of this, why are you "existing" in a lie?

Do you think you are a good person or a bad person? Why?

I try to be a "good person" most of the time. I may not be excellent, but I am pretty good.

“Sometimes, it is how you shine in the darkness, during other people's misery that is remembered more than anything you could have said or done when you have suffered just as much.”

-- Shannon L. Alder

What’s the maximum number of grade years for a school?

12 “grade” years.

What are some signs that you are stupid? Am I really stupid?

Almost nobody is stupid. Ignorant, yes, but not stupid. You may be very ignorant, but, not very stupid. “Stupid” is when you ask the same question, multiple times because you haven’t listened to the answer the first time around.

Why don't people know what you're thinking?

What I’m thinking, most people don’t want to know. And, I’m not telling.

What should we fear instead of failure?

Death. Failure is a sign that we have more work to do. If we don’t give up, we will succeed, sooner or later. Everyone fails. It is a human trait that we can’t get shed of. The only thing we can do is try harder. If we didn’t fail we would be perfect, but, we’re not perfect. We can be shades of excellence, but nothing is perfect.

Why do I feel like everyone around me is stupid? I don’t think I’m necessarily smart or a genius.

You don’t think you’re smart or genius. So, why do you “think” everyone around you is like you?

 What truly matters in this life?

True happiness. 

“Take responsibility of your own happiness, never put it in other people’s hands.”

-- Roy T. Bennett

I’m so worried about Trump’s ear. Is he ok?

He’s fine. A little gun-shy, but fine. He hits the floor when a mosquito buzzes past his ear, but he’s fine. He’ll grow out of it.

What makes a man not want to be close to his wife?

Syphilis.

Why do men become obsessed with me but don't love me?

Are you sexy? "Sexy" will make them obsessed. They may even want to marry you, The marriage won’t last, though, because they are obsessed. Being “obsessed” does not make a forever romance. Being good friends and falling in love does, most of the time.

So why are men always talking about respect but insist on putting a party whore in as President?

Democrats…

How do I convince my wife to let other guys have sex with her as I watch?

Ask her. If she is all about it, what are you going to do? You will become subservient to her and the other men. How will that affect you? Be careful what you wish for.

Why does my husband have no clue how to treat a woman?

Why did you marry him?

“Treat a woman like she’s made of glass, even tho’ she’s made of steel.”

-- Shanna Hatfield

Why are sluts so stupid?

They’re sluts. That doesn’t make them all stupid. They may be ignorant, but not necessarily stupid.

Do I want to be treated as a cheap slut by my husband?

That is up to you. It is your life, not ours.

Why are people from villages unmannered, rude, corrupted, and unintelligent? What's the idea or purpose of having such a society?

They don’t know you. They aren’t, necessarily, corrupt, or unintelligent. You judge those who don’t know you, and you certainly don’t know them. With this attitude about villagers, I doubt that I would welcome you.

Do you like the name “Lela Jasmine King”?

It rolls off the tongue.

Why do good people try to encourage/harass single people to be in relationships?

Because they aren’t single people. “Good people” seem to want everybody to suffer equally. Single people have learned that finding the perfect match is difficult, and being harassed doesn’t help.

Why do some people think they know it all and are never wrong? It's "their way or the highway."

Some of these people, don’t have a clue, and many who know them can attest to it.

“It is never wrong to do the right thing.”

-- Mark Twain

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com

Gay Christian, Gay Marriage (Updated from 6/28/2015)

 

So, the Supreme Court (SCOTUS) has overreached its authority and paved the way for gay marriage throughout the United States. It will be interesting to see how the individual states, and their religious majorities, react to being told what they can do, and not do, when it comes to their sense of morality. It would seem by my comment here, that I am against these unions. To the contrary, I am not. I have written much on the subject of homosexual tolerance, or lack thereof. I have attached links to a few of these posts:

Gay Marriage Equality 

The Gay Christian 

LGB, LGBT, LGBTQ, LGBTQQ... and Confused 

Church Law or God's Love? 

Homosexuality: Is It a Choice?

The SCOTUS no sooner handed down this ruling when my inbox was hit with a few emails asking for my humble opinion.  For the most part the questions were a mix of two themes, gay marriage and gay Christianity.  For me, I have no problem with gay marriage.  I believe that a loving, giving, relationship is hard to come by these days, so wherever we can find it, so be it.  One of my friends sent this comment: 

So, is this where tolerance comes in? Is this what we've preached about all along? Acceptance? Tolerance? Okay, I'm buying it....however....you know I have questions. Like, what if deep down I am a conservative Christian who believes that marriage was to be between man and woman so they could reproduce and populate the earth with more believers and followers of Christ? I know, I know...LOVE IS LOVE. No matter what, love is patient.

And this is where all the controversy arises, with the "conservative Christian."  We must remember that man wrote scripture, scripture put together by a council of other men, and interpreted, for the most part, by men.  The minute you step back and question the validity of scripture to reflect the true desire of God and not just the agenda of men, you must also bring into question the validity of certain moral interpretations.  With so many accepting, loving, forgiving, Christians passing judgment on the gay community as a whole, it brings into question their own Christian values.  Once your own values are brought into question, your sense of morality is also suspect.

Is homosexuality an affront to God?  God is omnipotent.  God doesn't make mistakes.  God has a plan for all of us.  Why are we judging the servants of our own Master?  Where do we get off presuming we can speak for the Almighty?  We will all be judged for what we do by our Master, and it is for our own Mater to determine if we stand or fall.  As for the question of gay Christianity, I point my readers to several websites for more information.  I think the first link does a fine job of explaining misinterpretations in scripture:

God and the Gay Christian: The Biblical Case in Support of Same-Sex Relationships 

Gay Christian Network 

Gay Christian 101 

Being Gay Being Christian

We all want to have an opinion on this subject, and opinions are a good thing as long as they're constructive.  Unfortunately, we are only human, and we fail miserably when it comes to doing our own homework so we can form our own informed, intelligent, opinions.  We tend to operate on the agendas spewed forth by people we have faith are operating with our own best interest in mind.  We are but lemmings rushing to the cliff.  The question you should be asking is whether you'll drink the cyanide laced Kool Aid when the pastor presents it.

Many seem to feel a "civil union" should suffice for the gay community, and, in truth, a civil union has been better for many, even straight couples, when it comes to the laws of the land.  Marriage muddies the legal water.  And there is the point that marriage is not holy matrimony, and this would be correct.  Marriage is something done as a legal vehicle to join two people.  Holy matrimony is a promise made before God, family, and other witnesses, to do right by each other for as long as you both shall live.  How many Christians can you think of around you that have lied to God about this?  The divorce rate is staggering.  It will be interesting to see how gays stack up, and maybe this is what frightens us.  What if they can do it better; better parents of their adopted children, better relationships and lower divorce rate, and so on?  We judge the gay community for wanting to be Christian, wanting holy matrimony, wanting what we all want - to love and be loved.  Personally, I can see why they're so confused about straight attitudes, considering our own less than laudable sense of morality.

This isn't Sodom and Gomorrah or Rome.  There is more real crime in the streets than consenting sodomy and debauchery, except for maybe the French Quarter on a Saturday night.  We concern ourselves about gays kissing on television, yet we find a hot, sweating, softcore porn scene acceptable viewing in prime time.

Perhaps, before we pass judgment, those that pound the bible should reflect on what our scripture says about judging others.  Before we turn the lost away, perhaps we should ask them if they feel lost, and then see what the bible says about feeling in your heart that you are right.  The again, maybe we would be better served to have faith in God not making mistakes so we righteous hypocrites have to presume to feel obligated to clean up the mess.  If God made a mess, I'm sure God has all good intent to clean it up.  Maybe if we paid more attention to getting our own house in order we would find little time to presume to pass judgment on the house of another.

Of course, this is just my opinion.  I could be wrong.

Editor's Note 

(re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card) 

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch, it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either opinion any more right or wrong than the other. An opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form opinions of their own, if they haven't already done so.

It is my fervent hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions and then engaging in peaceful, constructive, discussion and debate in an arena of mutual respect concerning the opinions put forth. After over twenty years as a military intelligence analyst, planner, and briefer, I have come to believe engaging each other in this manner and in this arena is the way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we do afterward, and what we learn from the experience.

Frank Anthony Villari (aka, Pastor Tony)

Pastor Tony is founder of the Congregation for Religious Tolerance and author/editor of the Congregation's official blog site, "The Path."

Questioning Morality, Stupid, Good, Offers, Bullies, and Replies

 

“Just because there isn't a "Thou shalt not" attached to a situation does not necessarily mean it is a "Thou shalt.”

-- Andy Stanley

Is the lack of Christian morality one of the reasons that you are an atheist?

The lack of “Christian morality" is why I am not a Christian or an atheist. I choose to be "spiritually focused" on believing in my God. One does not have to join a cult, to have a belief they desire.

Do you think people who aren't religious are morally inferior?

What you are is beside the point. Being “morally inferior” is a choice everybody can make.

In life does one need a challenge to gain prosperity?

Life is itself a challenge. Accepting the challenge will help you to gain prosperity. Living life is a choice, as is accepting the challenge, and working toward prosperity. Make your choices move you forward in life. 

Does quieting the mind allow us to perceive ourselves?

We always perceive ourselves. How we perceive ourselves has to do with quieting the mind.

Why do people get angry over the smallest insignificant things?

They don’t understand that anger solves nothing. If you think about it, after the anger passes, is when we can take care of the “smallest insignificant things.” If you try to solve problems while angry, you will revisit the problem… when you are not.

Do you prefer attention to actual sex?

Both are “selfish” desires. "Actual sex" requires some mutual "attention" from both parties involved. I would prefer “actual sex” to any other attention.

“Amazing sex stays with you. It soaks into your skin. It floats through your dreams and has you silently smoldering with delicious remembrances for hours after. It has you craving it days later. And it has you aching for it if you don’t get it for a while.”

-- Roberto Hogue

I have put these four questions together, as they have the same answer:

Do you also think that you are wise and they are stupid when you come across someone who is completely opposed to you?

Why does everyone tell me that I'm stupid?

How do you know if you’re smarter than a stupid person? 

What if people might just be stupid, and I was stupid thinking that they're not stupid?

No one is stupid. People might be "ignorant" and you might be "ignorant" by thinking that they’re not "ignorant". Again, nobody is stupid. They just don’t understand. Explaining yourself might help a bit.

Why do many people do bad things to good people, to get what they want?

They have no concept of a good, ethical existence. Or, they choose to ignore it.

Is it okay if I don't hate evil people?

“Hate” is an evil term. You can not like what they do, but it doesn’t require you to “hate” them. It would be more appropriate to pity them. One should try to lift them from evil and show them the light.

How can I experience true love?

You will have to fall truly in love with somebody. Will you die for them? Not a simple task.

Is the Democrat parties stupidity on full display, when they praise feeble-minded Joe for, doing the right thing, when in reality he was forced out? Are they really that f*****g stupid?

I cleaned up the question. The question needs some wordsmithing before you call people names that you might be a party to. “Stupid” is taking people to the gutter and nobody deserves that. They are ignorant of the facts because they are too busy to pay attention to reality. This is the problem with politics. They hope you are too “ignorant” to pay attention so they can feed you quasi-believable bullshit.

Author comment: Sorry bro, ignorant to the facts, doesn't quite describe the Democrat party. I'm going to stick with stupid.

My reply: You are what you are.

Is there nothing a human being won’t do?

I won’t eat shit, but some humans will. I’m confident you can find somebody who will do anything you can think of. Willful ignorance is a badge we wear with questionable pride.

“Sometimes you just have to jump in a mud puddle because it's there. Never get so old that you forget about having fun.”

-- Tom Giaquinto

Why should we be good people?

Because if we were all bad people, the chances of us continuing to exist would be dicey.

How do I live as a good person?

Do good, always. Weigh your choices and decisions against what is good and what is not. Always choose good.

Is intelligence really related to race? Are there people who are more intelligent than other people because of their race?

This has been proven false, time and time again.

Why is everything an intelligent creation?

Everything was created for a purpose. The process of creation, then, is intelligent. At times things can go wonky, but learning comes from making mistakes. Unfortunately, mistakes happen again and again. I think that learning, even for creators, can be a slow process of trial and error. Creation, existence, and death, but, in the beginning, there must be creation.

How can anybody in their right mind vote for a man that calls the country stupid?

But, most of the country is. He only stated a fact.

Can high IQ scores always be considered accurate?

No. The tests only give a quotient. The quotient can be off… by a good bit. Tests tend to gauge knowledge, not how you arrive at the knowledge - the processes. The entire test of answers could be guessing, or the product of a great memory. The process is where the wheels meet the road.

“It is not that I'm so smart. But I stay with the questions much longer.”

-- Albert Einstein

What help could a senior staff or manager offer you?

A promotion.

Is it possible for a genius to become stupid or dumb?

A “genius” is gauged by a quotient, and every “genius” is a bit different, Does this “bit” make them stupid or dumb to the other geniuses? I wonder. 

Why do you want to be smart?

So I won’t be judged by smart people to be dumb as a brick, not that I care what they think.

Do really smart people actually lack common sense? If so, why?

It is not my experience. Smart people, tend to have lots of common sense. Intelligent people, tend not to have as much good, common sense. The rarity in the equation is a person who is, both, intelligent and smart.

Is it true, people respect you more when you don't care about their opinions?

I tend not to care about opinions, and I tend not to care what people think of me.

Is being firm but polite an effective way to earn respect from others? Why or why not?

If you are so shallow, that you feel you have to earn someone else’s respect, knock yourself out. Being firm in your convictions shows you have a code of ethics, and being polite to others is good manners. Whether you are “respected” for doing this, is not important. It is who you are, not who they want you to be.

“Even if you cannot change all the people around you, you can change the people you choose to be around. Life is too short to waste your time on people who don’t respect, appreciate, and value you. Spend your life with people who make you smile, laugh, and feel loved.”

-- Roy T. Bennett

Why do some smart people don't mind being the bully?

“Smart” people wouldn’t even think of being a bully. Smart people would find a way to have it all without being an asshole.

What is a good excuse that I missed something?

There is no excuse for missing something. You missed it, that’s it. Ta-da! 

Am I wrong for making fun of people who don’t deserve happiness?

Yes, you are. People, who seem not to deserve happiness, should have our pity, not our humor at their expense. Karma will ensure when you deserve something good, you will feel only guilt for the fun you made at someone else’s expense. 

Why are the Western degenerates so stupid?

Compared to Eastern degenerates? A degenerate is a degenerate. Where they come from has little bearing on degeneracy.

What kind of people think it amusing to mock others because they consider them stupid and naive?

Ignorant people. 

Am I wrong for making fun of people who don’t deserve happiness?

Yes, you are. People, who seem not to deserve happiness, should have our pity, not our humor at their expense. Karma will make you suffer guilt for the fun you made at someone else's expense.

“Advise a wise man, and he will listen to you. Advise a fool, and he will make fun of you.”

-- Mouloud Benzadi

If someone says “You disappeared”, what should I reply?

“I’m back. Did I miss something?”

Is everything in life fake?

Nope. Everything I do is reality. “Fake” is someone else’s wheelhouse. But, the fact that I operate in reality, makes some of what is in life not fake.

What do you mean when you say "You're stupid"?

I mean that I’m stupid, for not coming up with a better comment that isn’t so demeaning.

When your intentions are pure, how do you stay among people with bad intentions?

It has to do with self-defense. It is a reality that we need to go among the other people we might not know. Some of them, probably have bad intentions. Self-defense allows you to watch your back. You have the tools to ward off those who don’t have your best interests in mind.

What does it mean when someone says, "Don't be stupid"?

Don’t be ignorant. Saying “stupid” is demeaning, and shows a lack of good upbringing. 

What are actions without intentions?

Mistakes.

“Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.”

-- Albert Einstein

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com

The Scent of Love (Updated from 6/28/2015)

 

“When I'm working on a problem, I never think about beauty. I think only how to solve the problem. But when I have finished, if the solution is not beautiful, I know it is wrong.”

-- R. Buckminster Fuller (1895-1983)

I apologize, upfront, for a short moment of rambling thought.

I'm a fairly private person.  I don't let many people into my world. Not anymore.  I have many friends, few of which are close, and fewer are those I allow inside.  My world is orderly, to a point.  My shirts hang in one direction, with the second button from the top buttoned, my underwear is tri-folded and neatly stacked, and I really prefer to iron my own shirts so they are just right.  There is generally a place for everything, and I like everything in its place.  I accept authority because it is my desire to do so, not because the authority thinks I care.  For forty years of my life, I have worked at what I wanted. I've taken grief as a consequence of doing what I choose, with full knowledge that, at a moment's notice, I could bend over, slap my lily-white derriere, and say, "Kiss it, Mutha...  I'm so outta here!" I never found a reason.

And then there is my work area.

“He who works with his hands is a laborer. He who works with his hands and his head is a craftsman. He who works with his hands and his head and his heart is an artist.”

-- St. Francis of Assisi (1181-1226)

My work area is usually a disaster, while I work.  I like it that way.  It keeps me creative.  It helps me think.  Computers?  I want a paper file; something with texture and the smell of paper; something I can hold in my hand, fold, and scribble on.  I like a file folder I can tear apart and spread out.  I like large chalkboards that I can brainstorm on and whiteboards that I can see from the doorway that tell what projects and appointments are coming up.  Most of all... I like the smell of things.

I love the scent of sawdust and gear grease.  I love the smell of a tree as I'm trimming it or cutting it down. The scent of a toolbox as I open it for the tools to adjust the chain on the chainsaw, or the sparkplug in the mower.  Most of all, I love to stand in the middle of my messy woodworking area, surrounded by tools, and scraps of this and that, and I can smell the scent of everything combined; my muse, my source of inspiration and creativity.  And, of course, I love the smell of good food, and the spices to flavor it.  I'm Siciliano, why would this be a surprise?

As far back as I can trace most of the men, on my father's side, they came into this country with a carpenter's toolbox, for the most part, though a few were barbers.  And, being Sicilian, we have always had a great love of food, both eating, and cooking, and the men in my family can cook.  There is nothing more sensual than the smell of a great meal.  Given a choice between pasta with meatballs and a glass of red wine, or a night on the town with a good-looking woman, hand me a cloth napkin and a fork, if she wants me that bad, she'll wait... or eat.  If she thinks I'm selfish, she really needs to pull up a chair and dig in.

"Women! What can you say? Who made 'em? God must have been a [freakin'] genius. The hair... They say the hair is everything, you know. Have you ever buried your nose in a mountain of curls... just wanted to go to sleep forever? Or lips... and when they touched yours, were like... that first swallow of wine... after you just crossed the desert."

-- Lt. Col. Frank Slade, "Scent of a Woman" (1992)

In a great way, I hope she waits.  It may sound a tad kinky, but there is something about the scent of a woman, especially her hair after it's just been shampooed.  A trained nose can usually detect the faint smell of soap as a woman passes, especially if she walks through her perfume mist instead of splashing it on like some novice dude wearing High Karate aftershave.  He would empty a crowded elevator in Macy's... like someone set off tear gas during an army training exercise.  

No, other than food, there is much to be said for the subtle scent of a woman.  And, for the woman, the subtle scent of a man. 

“A man should hear a little music, read a little poetry, and see a fine picture every day of his life, in order that worldly cares may not obliterate the sense of the beautiful which God has implanted in the human soul.”

-- Johann Wolfgang von Goetherman

I think "Goethe" almost had it.  Everyone should make a little music, write some poetry, and create a fine picture, every day of their life, even if it's just for them.  Although, how selfish would that be?

But all of this is art.  

Whether you take pride in your painting, yard work, woodwork, engine work, cooking, or yourself, it is all a form of art, and all of it has a scent.  For most of us who realize this, it is the scent of love.  Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but the blind must see with the heart... and the nose.  As for men and women? We are like a hearty meal, and it is up to us what ingredients we use.  We can opt for spicy or bland, sweet or bitter, fragrant or subtle, with an explosion of flavor, or just a slight kiss.  Does it really matter what the meal looks like?  Close your eyes and just enjoy the fragrance.  

You might wake up in a mountain of curls, and realize how lucky you are.  God gifted you with a nose, so use it.  She surely won't mind.

“Listen. Strange women lying in ponds distributing swords is no basis for a system of government. Supreme executive power derives from a mandate from the masses, not from some farcical aquatic ceremony.”

-- Monty Python and the Holy Grail

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com