"Ut imagio est animi voltus sic indices oculi."
-- Marcus Tullius Cicero (106-43 B.C.)
"The face is a picture of the mind as the eyes are its
interpreter." Cicero's "face" was that of a statesman, a politician,
well known for his "inconsistencies and a tendency to shift his position
in response to changes in political climate" Oh! A politician!
I'll bet that played well on his face. As a politician he would be
well schooled in reading the true meaning of his contemporaries in the Roman
Senate.
Cicero's quote has simplified down through the centuries to
become, "The eyes are the window to the soul." But, are they?
How many of us can truly read a person by their eyes alone? Hell,
we try doing it via e-mail. How silly is that? The only way we can
have good communication, and truly understand the other party, is to verbally
communicate so we can listen to them. Communication is about facial
expression, voice inflection, and the eyes. Some one can say they're
frightened, but unless you see them how will you truly know how frightened they
are? And, how many times have you said something in an e-mail or a letter
that has been taken in totally the wrong way?
This Sunday try turning the phone off and shutting
down the computer. Go outside into the world and communicate.
Communicate your love for God. Communicate with some one you care about, and tell them how much you care. If they are out
of town try using the phone instead of e-mail so they can at least hear your
voice and you theirs. Take some time today to practice interpersonal communication. Throw the kids outside and make them live life while you're at it
Always remember, Cicero's statement is only valid if you are there to see the
other person.
God bless us all this Sunday.
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