Attitude Adjustment (Updated from 12/24/2015)

 

Is it hard, for me, to believe I have an Army Airborne "grunt" for a friend?  

Not really.  Nor is it unusual, for me, to find camaraderie among the active duty, retired, and veteran military, frequenting my favorite local cigar bar. A boutique cigar and a local microbrew. Oorah!  We are the Marines, Army, Navy, Air Force, Coast Guard, and Sea Bees that signed on the dotted line, volunteering to put "boot to ass" for the corps, God, country, mom's apple pie, and the girl next door.

There is something about being part of a greater military family.  I have found that military personnel who understand this, also recognize the US Marine Corps "Core Values" of honor, courage, and commitment, as values for all branches of military service.  Veterans I've met also strive to be "always faithful" to these values.  They pledge their life to God, their service, and the USA, to protect freedom and liberty.  Codes, mottos, credos, and such, dictate who we are as military personnel. It will be what we will always be.  In deference and thanks to our brave Marine Corps brothers, and sisters, for allowing us to share in their pride. What we, United States military personnel, have pledged our lives to be - always faithful! 

"The Marines don’t have any race problems. They treat everybody like they’re black."

-- Gen. Daniel “Chappie” James Jr.

Yet, even with all this, military personnel have struggled with moral issues.  I cite the acceptance of blacks in the military, and Japanese-American and Navajo units in WWII, as evidence.  Blacks have served in every conflict since the beginning of the Revolutionary War, and Japanese-Americans and Navajos volunteered in World War II.  All these units served with distinction and became some of the most highly decorated.  Did they fight for acceptance, for their country, or for both?  If you fight for one aren't you fighting for the other?  

We have come a long way since the first African-American four-star, USAF Gen. "Chappie" James, Jr., made his 1970's remark, "The Marines don’t have any race problems. They treat everybody like they’re black."  The military has beaten down racial issues and thought they had a handle on gender equality... until the gender line blurred.  Now it would seem we still have a significant journey ahead of us, Chappie.

But, what did we learn through it all?  What did we take away from this growth process?  Today we are at odds with women in combat roles, gays in the military, and gender dysphoria and identity.  Have we learned nothing?  Why does it take throwing everyone into life-and-death situations where they have to rely on each other for their very survival, regardless of who and what they are?  When do we finally move past petty bullshit and realize we are all fighting for freedom and security?

You don't have to be straight to be in the military; you just have to be able to shoot straight.

-- Sen. Barry Goldwater

I remember, as a kid, hearing about gays, homosexuals, being accepted to the San Francisco Police Department.  One officer's comment stuck with me my entire life.  If he had to have a partner, relying on them to cover his back, he'd rather have a gay that isn't going to cut and run than a heterosexual coward.  It matters little what you look like, your religion, or your sexual preference.  What really matters are your core values, what you are willing to bring to the table when the chips are down, what kind of person you are, your ethics, and your patriotism. 

When I was in the military they gave me a medal for killing two men and a discharge for loving one.

-- Epitaph of Leonard P. Matlovich

Women in combat have always been a point of contention.  The fact that women cannot do the job of a fighting man has a great bearing on whether either of them comes back alive from combat.  As a POW, they will be raped. However, if a woman can prove herself a viable asset by passing the same rigorous tests the men have to perform, then I say, let them do the damned job - they have, at that point, earned the right to jump and die.

I do not believe in using women in combat, because females are too fierce.

-- Margaret Mead

The United States has authorized women for combat roles.  We tried to go down this road when they "eased the requirements" so women could physically endure the testing.  I don't really believe easing requirements is what women were after, to have requirements lessened so they can have a "free pass" and die unprepared.  I don't think a woman wants to find out she wasn't really fit for the position she faces, a no-win situation during a battle.  I think she'd like to be told, honestly, that she doesn't make the grade before she eats a bullet due to her lack of ability.  And, let's be honest, if we're looking for women to go toe-to-toe with men in fighting roles, wouldn't a seriously "butch lesbian" be a better possible choice?  Just saying.

We need to show the ladies the same respect we offer men.  We need to hold them to the same standards required to accomplish the job before some lawyer for the League of the Perpetually Offended starts to piss and moan about fairness, until men, also, only have to meet the relaxed requirements put forth for women.  Our society has become all about moving backward, not forward.  Where will these lax requirements leave our fighting force?  Oh, yeah, that's right, we're now handing out participation trophies.  There are no winners, bests, or number ones.  Damn, my bad.  We can all now feel secure in our participation in a war, screw winning it.  We've become so good at taking a hill... and giving it right back.  No wonder we have a problem defeating terrorist Islam.  God bless America, or God help us?  I vote we not try to make this shot at women in combat be the same joke as the last attempt.

We have women in the military, but they don't put us on the front lines. They don't know if we can fight... if we can kill. I think we can. All the General has to do is walk over to the women and say, 'You see the enemy over there? They say you look fat in those uniforms.'

-- Elayne Boosler, comedian

One of the reasons for not wanting women in combat has been the thought men would be overprotective of them to the point of jeopardizing the given mission.  I'm not sure a fighting man would be any more, or less, concerned for a woman's welfare than any other fellow soldier in the field during a firefight, but if they are, I would think that's a good thing.  We always say we fight for mom, apple pie, and the girl next door, well, that girl is in the fight with you now, in the foxhole fighting for her life, and her comrades.  This question needs to be a point of contention if she would be any less a fighter for the men she serves with when the shit hits the fan?

Women risk inappropriate sexual conduct by the men they serve with.  Women risk more when they go into combat - they risk rape and death at the hands of the enemy.  When you are up against an enemy who, per their own scripture, are supposed to treat women with respect, this would be a good thing.  When the enemy has forsaken their holy scripture, any rules of moral decency are out the door.  For a woman to put herself at this additional risk, voluntarily, should be a source of pride for all who serve with her, not a reason to stop her from serving.  It is bravery over and above those of her male comrades and is what serving one's country is all about.

"For conspicuous gallantry and intrepidity at the risk of his life above and beyond the call of duty... extraordinary heroism and selflessness above and beyond the call of duty are in keeping with the highest traditions of military service."

-- Excerpts from the Medal of Honor Citation

I had the misfortune to witness a retired military man show prejudice toward the gay community.  What I witnessed was an attitude that reflected the ability of the retired individual to turn a blind eye to any physical injustice they might see perpetrated against a gay person.  This saddens me, as it should sadden all who serve to protect.  Once we start down this road it is easy to fall into a habitual judgment of others.  

For a military member, tasked with fighting for those who cannot fight for themselves, this is a violation of the moral code, and oath they swore to uphold.  We are supposed to rise above petty judgment; we are to hold ourselves to a higher standard of conduct.  Do we have to like it?  No, but we are supposed to suck it up and continue to put boot to ass, to protect the rights of others as guaranteed by the Constitution and our own, moral, military code of conduct.  Life isn't always fair, and military personnel, more than most, should understand this.  We're supposed to fight for people who can't fight for themselves, not stand in judgment over them.  We're supposed to protect the rights and lives of everyone we are ordered to, not pick and choose. 

"Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated." 

-- Coretta Scott King

Some soldiers think, once they leave service, they can go back to being the same slovenly, dumbass, bigoted, judgmental, immoral, sinning, slacker, they were before they joined up.  What a giant step backward this is from the training to produce a finely tuned life, freely given in the service of others.

When I hear any military veteran voice heartfelt sentiments contrary to the code they have lived and stood by, it is saddening, especially to those of us who expect more.  Is this, also, a judgment?  I suppose it is, but it is a judgment that every soldier should expect and welcome from their military comrades.  We stand in judgment not of the people we fight for, but, rather, of the people we fight with.  We are held up to a different light of scrutiny by our brothers and sisters in arms. It ensures our conduct is above and beyond, to ensure our code is followed, and to ensure we all come back alive or, at the very least, be assured we will be brought back with honor and not left on the field of battle.

It is about respect.

The military way of life is an attitude adjustment.  For some, the adjustment changes their lives forever.  For others it is like tuning an engine when the timing is always a bit off; no matter how much effort is put into them, they just never seem to get it and never seem to run right.  For those who comprehend, learn, and understand, it is a life-changing experience that will follow us back into the civilian world.

Who around you is a proud veteran?  Well, who around you looks and acts a cut above?  Who ensures their shoes are polished, dress shirts ironed and creased, and gig line is straight?  Who turns toward the flag at the playing of our National Anthem, stands to attention and salutes, and cries at the funeral of a fallen soldier, one they never knew, giving them a heartfelt salute in farewell?  

American soldiers never truly retire, but remain examples of patriotism and the best of America.  They are "walking attitude adjustments" waiting for the next call. They will adjust their glasses for failing vision, to give all in service for mom, apple pie, and the people of this great nation.  We veterans remain, forever, standing atop the imaginary wall, daring the enemy to cross the red line.

Think about the sacrifices of first responders and the soldiers of our country.  Instead of hampering them, help them.  Instead of hindering their desire for service, show support for their patriotism.  And, above all, try to show a little respect.  If they are what they profess to be, they'll already be showing you the same respect.  

It isn't that they require respect, but don't you think they deserve it?  After all, they are volunteering... to die for you.

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com

The Sage (Updated from 12/29/2015)

Is this all there is? I have lived long and hard upon this Earth, by the grace of God, and am left asking myself, is this all there is? I have fought in three wars, and battled cancer. I have buried my wife, both of my children, and placed my granddaughter in her grave just this morning, God rest her soul. I have outlived all of my friends, too. Every morning I awake once more to a body that hurts, reminding me of age and careless moments in life. I find, each morning, that I am still alive. I find each morning that I am alone. I ask God, each morning, is this all there is?

Is there no more? Is it enough I have lived long and hard upon this Earth, and I have partied like there is no tomorrow? Is it enough I have lived and loved, raised children and grandchildren, and have memories for several more lifetimes because of my family and friends? And, now that I am alone, I must ask, is there no more?

The candle that burns twice as bright burns half as long. When one door closes, another door opens. As this life comes to an end, as this path approaches another fork, there is the mystery of what adventure lies around the next bend.

Have no regrets of the life lived; it has been preparation for all that lies ahead. If you have not lived fully, if you have not found faith, if love has escaped you, again, let not your heart be troubled. Another chance to excel awaits you in the next life and the numerous lives after that. It is really not about the destination, for what awaits us there will always be there, when we eventually arrive. Immerse yourself in the present journey, and let loose the bonds of anticipation.  

Live for today and there will be an eternity of rest tomorrow, or the day after.  With any luck, and God's good grace, tomorrow never comes.

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com

Time (Updated from 12/20/15)

 

"But there never seems to be enough time

To do the things you want to do

Once you find them"

-- Jim Croce, "Time in a Bottle"

There never seems to be enough time.  Of course, you don't realize this when you're young.  I think the realization hits somewhere around the middle of your working life when you realize money can buy you everything, but you're still empty.  It's the point you admit, no amount of money can buy your way out of that feeling. This is the time you ask, "Is this all there is?"

And then, you're old. I am creeping up on that time.

Never enough time turns to fear of time running out.  You find yourself wondering if forgetting a name is the onset of Alzheimer's or just old-timers.  You silently pray you never lose your mind, because it seems to be the only true friend you've ever had.  The "silent prayer" would be your admission that God is becoming more and more important as your time here winds down.

Every morning brings a new ache, new reminders of your lifetime of bodily abuse.  Breakfast includes meds, aspirin, coffee, and an occasional dose of "Elijah Craig" when the pain just won't let up.  The face you see in the mirror is familiar, yet older.  The hair is becoming easier to brush as it disappears, and a few of us marvel that we still have all our teeth.

You find the questionnaire at the doctor's office humorous.  Name?  Uh... oh, yeah.  Sex?  Yes, please!  Married?  Not if I can help it.  How is your health?  I'm visiting a doctor, how good can it be?  Do you have muscle aches?  Do you drink alcohol?  Do you smoke? Do you get up at night to urinate?  I'm old, you moron; yes to all.  I like to visit older doctors who actually read these things and ask relevant questions, concerning my answers.  It makes me feel I haven't wasted some precious time better spent actually being seen by him.

I find my life, at this point, is more about walks on the beach and through the park.  I find these walks are more about talking with God and making my "shit" right with the Lord.  I find the Bible less important than the message, and the message so much less complicated than "holy" scripture tries to make it.  Love God, love yourself, and do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  

How can you elaborate on ten simple commandments enough to fill a book?  You come to realize, as you get older, that only man could complicate the simple word of God to such an extreme as to create a book of dubious attribution, questionable intent, and countless contradictions requiring even more explanation and interpretation.

"Time" is still misunderstood. Physicists try to understand it and philosophers try to explain it. Time continues to march on while we waste time on research into what and why. Even if we understood it, could we change it? I think not. Time is truly the gift of God... and the bane of our existence. Time is what we spend learning to be. Time is full of sadness, happiness, mistakes, failures, success, and realization. Time prepares us for what comes after. It reminds us of what went before. Time is something we learn to cherish. Time is a cruel taskmaster. Put time in a bottle? I found I don't have the time to waste on trying. I would rather spend time with you.

Take some time to think about time, and you might find your time is well spent.  Time is never really wasted and time is never lost.  Time, and again, we find the time to do what's right.  

Will we ever understand time?

Only time will tell.

"Time is not a fixed entity but rather a relative concept"

-- Albert Einstein

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com

God Isn't Repairing Our Failures (Updated from the original - 12/15/2015)

 

"We posed the question to all of you on our Facebook page and got a litany of interesting responses. Many of you echoed the sentiments shared by the Daily News, voicing instead, that you would like to see our nation’s leaders instead put forth actionable solutions to the problems we face. Many of you also, however, voiced anger at the declaration of the Daily News and advocated for the power of prayer in difficult situations – particularly when a person may not individually be able to take direct action."

-- The Visionary

Why isn't God fixing this?  By "this" we mean problems, and death, caused by people?  Are we to assume God is expected to step in whenever man displays an inept ability to do what is right?  Think about this from a good sense point of view.  Why would you create something requiring constant attention and maintenance?  This would be like a parent giving a house to the children and saying, "Run it into the ground and I'll keep fixing it for you - burn it down and I'll keep rebuilding it."  And, if we wouldn't create it, what makes us think God would?  As stated above, The Visionary, where I found this article, asked this question to their readers.  The "gist" of the answers is shown in the quote.

I wonder about those who voice anger at any liberal rag touting liberal "godlessness" by stating our leaders need to be fixing this.  Really?  So, let me get this straight, we finally get a liberal newspaper to state something we should all be on board with and, this time, the religious take on the mantle of the perpetually offended.  I think the Daily News simply stated what any truly spiritual person should already know - God gave us the earth, the heavens, and all the responsibility that comes with it.  We are the caretakers. It is our responsibility to make it run properly.

Everyone should pray to God, for assistance, and strength, to overcome.  We should pray for our many blessings and to give thanks for our successes.  And, most humbly, we should ask forgiveness for our failures, and pray for the strength and the tenacity to find the knowledge to overcome our shortcomings.  Really?  I find it immature, to cry to God every time we fail, expecting God to do for us.  Maybe we should, then, all of us, get down on our knees, look to heaven and plead, "Please God, make us not be dumbasses."  

What losers we are, if it comes to praying for that.  

“Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.”

--Winston Churchill

God gave us everything we need to succeed.  If you don't make use of the gift God gave you, it would seem to me, that would be your problem, not someone else's.  We need to humble ourselves by taking ownership of our failures, and not shift blame elsewhere.  God will show us the way, but it is up to us to travel the path.  We need to understand that any failure in our life is our failure, not someone else's.  We also need to understand that any failure in the world is mankind's failure, not God's.  We need to police our own house and thank God for the opportunity.

“The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing.”

-- Henry Ford

There are those among us for which everything in life comes easy; everything was handed to them on a silver platter.  Failure for these is devastating.  I think life without the humility of failure breeds a faux-ego that negates any true enjoyment of their success.  It breeds an ego demanding that money can buy everything, as they can take all the credit while standing shoulders-to-shoulders with the people they are crushing, who made their dreams a reality.   I think, for many, it breeds life without knowledge of faith, love, thanks, understanding, and forgiveness.

"Those who have failed are humble. They realize their limits through failure. They get to know so well that they cannot bring success in their lives with only their own strength. Those who have failed learn wonderful lessons through failure. They gain wisdom. They learn about human nature and gain new realizations on life. The most dangerous person is the one who continues to succeed. They are the ones who don’t know what failure is. People like them fall into pride. They are arrogant. In the midst of all of this, they suddenly crumble down at once."

-- Reverend Joshua Choon-min Kang

This quote is an excerpt from one of Reverend Joshua Choon-Min Kang's weekly letter to his congregation of the New Life Vision Church, entitled, Failure is a Road on the Way to Success.  I have included the link so you can read his short message.  It reminds me of the wealthy industrialist in the early 20th century who, when an employee lost a half million dollars he quipped, to the effect of, "I'm not going to fire him, I just spent $500,000 training him."  Failure is about learning, not just for the one who fails, but for all around them, as well.  

"We failed, but in the good providence of God apparent failure often proves a blessing."

-- Gen. Robert E. Lee

Why does God let innocence die?  Well, for those believing in an afterlife, innocence never really dies, does it?  And why is it God's fault, because we allow innocence to die on our watch?  God gave us the intelligence to create an atomic reaction and we used our lack of good sense to build weapons of mass destruction with it.  God gave us the intelligence to create guns to hunt, and we come up with the slogan, "Guns don't kill people, people kill people."  Nice slogan, because it says it all.  God doesn't kill people, people kill people.  Scripture would try to placate us by saying that, even if we heard the answer, we would not understand it because the innocent are no more.  It would not take away the pain and loss we feel.  Again, we forget that these innocent are not dead, but have found everlasting life, right?  Only their "physical shell" is dead. Right...  

But what about those things not in our control, like the weather?  Hurricanes ravage coastlines all the time, worldwide, and kill people.  The survivors rebuild atop the ruins.  Earthquakes demolish cities, killing thousands, and we rebuild atop the ruins, again and again.  Throughout history, we find cities rebuilt atop the ruins of cities. 

"Sometimes it takes a natural disaster to reveal a social disaster."

-- Jim Wallis

Are people really that stupid?  Isn't it all God's fault that we're too stupid to move after, oh, several disasters that happen... on the same spot?  We still do it today.  Hell, I just built a house where a house once stood before Hurricane Katrina.  How smart is that?  But, I'm not blaming God for what I do.  It is my choice.  I'm one of many idiots living for the next disaster, it is what we do. But, then, I built the house 8 feet higher.  I'm not totally stupid.

God has a "get out of jail free" card.  He gave mankind the freedom to choose.  In this way, if man chooses poorly, God can sit back and mumble, "Dumb ass."  And, God would be right.  We are not God's monkeys, we are not God's circus.  God is just here to save those who can be rescued if we finally burn the circus tent down.  Will that be our final failure?  No, I don't think so.  It isn't in our nature. There is another failure in the offing  

In the end, we will rebuild on the ashes of the old, and continue to give unto God that which is God's. That is what Los Angeles is going to do. California... enough said.

"Only after disaster can we be resurrected."

-- Chuck Palahniuk

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com

Questioning Consciousness, Lies, Atheists, Faith, Wisdom, and Suicide

 

"An altered state of consciousness is a change in one's normal mental state as a result of trauma or accident or induced through meditation, drugs, some foods, etc. The person is not unconscious. There are also many common experiences that create altered states of consciousness (ASC), such as sleeping or daydreaming, sleep deprivation, euphoria, or panic. Dream state, hypnosis, and meditation are also considered ASC. ASC is a relative state of mental functioning. The mind is still wandering (such as in a dream) or concentrated and focused as in meditation. A thoughtless stillness could be experienced, from time to time, that could take us beyond ASC."

-- National Library of Medicine

Mind movement or engaging with automated thoughts alters the consciousness state experienced. Do you agree?

If you buy into it, yes.

Author comment: You agree that mind movement affects the consciousness state experienced then?

My reply: If you buy into it, yes. (What part did he not understand?)

Author comment: Ok, so if you experience both the “in” and “out” of the moment consciousness states, then how can you be consciousness? You are merely aware of the vibratory experience of it.

My reply: And?

Why do I allow myself to be on this Earth with an entire population that I do not like?

That is your problem. As your problem, only you can answer it. If you can’t answer it, that is another problem. There is a way out of this, but, personally, I would try to get along with the population.

Why is it that humans struggle to make and keep money, when it's very important to have?

Christ lived off the charity of people. How “important” is this struggle?

Is it true that “All logical arguments can be defeated by the simple refusal to reason logically.” as claimed by Tadas Maurukas?

Yes, it is true. If you refuse to reason logically, there is no reason to communicate with you. It would be a waste of time and effort.

Reader comment: You are absolutely correct. I just didn’t expect that behavior from everyone who sees my proof. I think it must be mass psychosis that causes everyone to abandon reason.

If there was such a thing as the “secret or secrets to life” and you knew for sure that you discovered it/them (and you actually DID) after diligent searching, how would you expect that to influence how you see yourself and treat others?

I would smile. I would expect nothing. It is enough that I know.

Am I the only one who wishes that I was never born?

If you were never born, I couldn’t answer this question. If things in your life that make you feel this way, get rid of them. We allow “drama” to rule our lives. Get rid of the drama.

“Not to be born at all

Is best, far best that can befall,

Next best, when born, with least delay

To trace the backward way.

For when youth passes with its giddy train,

Troubles on troubles follow, toils on toils,

Pain, pain forever pain;

And none escapes life's coils.

Envy, sedition, strife,

Carnage and war, make up the tale of life.”

-- Sophocles

How can I be sure of what they lie about, and what they tell the truth about?

You can research the answers they give, but that takes time. The best bet is to surround yourself with people who speak the truth. If they don’t know, they will tell you they aren’t certain of what they say. 

Who do people think they are when claiming that something they do is not perfect?

They are perfectionists. Perfectionists want everything they do to be perfect.

If Satan designed atheism, why did he only limit its effects to the stupid?

They aren’t stupid. They may be ignorant. Either way, they don’t delve too deep. The “conscious” people take a look, and then they look several more times, just to be sure. The thing about theism is, we can admit that we really don’t know. That mystery fascinates us. Most atheists are too shallow to dig too far down. They don’t buy into it from the start, and that prevents them from ever thinking about everlasting life.

What is your go-to strategy for staying disciplined when progress feels slow?

Being disciplined doesn't require a "go-to" strategy. My discipline is what it is, disciplined. 

Why do we waste time rewatching movies or series we've already watched?

Because they are interesting. I have watched the “Star Wars” movies more than once because they are interesting.

Do you know how many important and positive things Scientologists do for society?

I try not to think about cult members.

"If Scientologists are happy in the church, I say God bless. Honestly, it's probably better for them to keep getting jerked off in the church because they will never experience that kind of validation in the real world."

-- Leah Remini

Do atheists look forward to being spiritually sodomized by Satan for eternity?

They don’t believe in God or Satan.

I think scientists are fools wasting their worthless time by “experimenting”. Why don’t they go do something useful with their pathetic little life?

Well, your statement says they are wasting their "worthless" time.  Their "worthless" time probably gave the major part of the world everything they needed to be free and healthy. Their experiments have given us medicine, electricity, sustainable crops, gasoline, healthy animals, healthy people, etc., etc., etc.  "Worthless time"? That's a hoot.

How are questions properly structured?

“Why?”

If you're kind and do the right thing, does DEI become increasingly unnecessary?

“DEI stands for Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion, which we define as follows: Diversity is the presence of differences in dimensions of human identity.” — City of Lebanon, NH.

If you are kind and always do the right thing, and you believe in diversity, equity, and inclusion, then what is the use of DEI to you? I just heard of this, and I stand for all of it.

What is the first event popping out from your memory, that made you suspect human integrity?

Lies. Nothing shatters human integrity like lying.

Can you love somebody who hates you?

I love my ex-wife, after everything she did to me over the 25 years of our marriage. I can’t live with her, but I still love her, after everything she did to me. She was acting immature, and I forgave her, but it took years.

“If you can love someone without the hope of ever being loved back, that love is real.”

-- Shikha Thakur, MBA

Is it acceptable to share one's faith with non-believers?

Only if they ask you, and only if they are honest with their question.

Why does God allow evil people to flourish in their lives?

God has nothing to do with it. God cut us loose. People will do what they will do, and if it is evil, they will pay for it, sooner or later.

What happens if you don't serve God's purpose in your life?

You will suffer the consequences.

What are some ways to help others and bring glory to God?

Help others. Whether you are poor or rich, helping others is the only way you can bring glory to God. You should not brag about why you are doing it. It is a personal task you have assigned to yourself. If you are asked, smile and you can say God has assigned you to this. The assignment is between you and God.

How do humans always know what they think about or what they know?

We have a reasoning brain. It isn’t always right, but it’s the best we have.

How can we understand death and where we go?

It is all supposition. Each person, organization, church, etc., has a theory. Maybe some of them have bits of it right. Most of my library is comprised of religious texts. I have a book of “World Religions.” It is 288 pages long. It is a “reference classic.” The point I’m trying to make is that it covers the seven major religions. It does not cover all of them or a person’s personal beliefs. What you want to understand about death… is up to you.

"Death smiles at us all, all a man can do is smile back."

-- Marcus Aurelius

Does wisdom need to be found on one's own, or can it be taught?

It can be taught, but it is better understood if you experience it on your own.

How do I know if I am living in God's purpose?

Are you truly good, honest, believe in God, always happy, and selflessly helping others? If you are, you are living in God’s purpose. You can only do so much.

Can I find a wife and get married?

You need to get looking or you’ll never find a wife to marry.

Are teachers ruining children?

If they are not teaching what the children need to know, they are ruining the children. Teachers need to teach the basics, and then the children can choose extra classes… if they have the time.

Read with comprehension, write effectively, and communicate successfully in a variety of ways and settings and with a variety of audiences; Know and apply the core concepts and principles of mathematics; social, physical, and life sciences; civics and history, including different cultures and participation in representative government; geography; arts; and health and fitness; Think analytically, logically, and creatively, and to integrate technology literacy and fluency as well as different experiences and knowledge to form reasoned judgments and solve problems; Understand the importance of work and finance and how performance, effort, and decisions directly affect future career and educational opportunities.

Can knowledge and ignorance stay together?

It happens all the time.

Is it possible for a religious person to be evil?

Indeed. One only has to look at clerics to see the possibility of evil. Nuns that whack knuckles with rulers, is my favorite. Priests who diddle children are another. There is always an opening, no matter religious or not, for evil to show its face.

“With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil - that takes religion.”

-- Steven Weinberg 

Why is our society intolerant to suicide? Why not let some people leave this world?

Whether they are tolerant or not, suicide happens, and people leave this life. It’s a choice.

Do I need a relationship seriously?

Define “relationship”? You can have relationships with your friends. If you are talking about being a hermit, you will still have relationships with people you bump into. Now, if you are talking about “sexual” relationships, many priests make this happen. So it would seem that you can make this happen.

Has the world become atheist?

Not a chance. Religion has a lock on belief.

Is there such a thing as a Christian atheist?

No. An atheist doesn’t believe in God.

Is it necessary to follow religion if everything is made up?

Prove it. There’s the rub. Nobody is knowledgeable about religion... until they die. So much for current knowlege. 

How does a secular moral differ from an atheist moral?

Good morals are good morals, religious, secular, or atheist.

"Your morals are your ideas about right and wrong, especially how you should act and treat other people. Most people would agree that thieves, murderers, and other criminals are lacking morals. A lot of people would say politicians could use some morals as well. Every person has a slightly different set of morals, and different cultures have their own morals as well. You probably get your morals from a combination of your parents, your teachers, your culture, and your religion."

-- Vocabulary.com, "Morals"

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com

Questioning Destination, Dirty, Righteous, Actions, More, Self-Care

 

"It's not the destination, it's the journey."

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Can life be considered a continuous journey without a specific destination?

You start out at birth. You end your journey at death. There may be a specific destination, though. Everybody dies.

Is everybody crazy?

I don’t think I am. Of course, I could be wrong.

Can you explain the meaning of the phrase, "The Journey Is The Destination"?

The journey is what it is, a journey. The destination is the "endpoint" of the journey. If the journey never ends, then you will never reach a destination until you die. Where you die will be your final destination on this plane of life. A journey is not a destination. There may be many destinations during your journey, but the journey is not a destination.

Is it better to believe in something because you want it to be true or because there is evidence for it?

Something that is “true” has evidence pointing to its validity.

In order to be a Christian, do I have to believe that every other religion is wrong?

Actually, you are paying homage to Jesus, the Christ. Other religions and philosophies have their moments, and we can recognize them for those. Most other religions are not completely wrong, however, Islam has been hijacked by several “pretenders” who say they speak for God. They don’t. Islam, at its purest, is a loving religion.

What do you know about Area 57

“Area” 57, is not real. Don’t get it confused with the "57thWing" at Nellis Air Force Base.

"A comedy about the employees for the U.S. government, who work in a remote facility in the Nevada desert, which houses an alien creature." (This stars Paul Reubens, which tells all you need to know.)

-- IMDb

What matters less, a dirty heart or a dirty mind?

A dirty mind. A dirty mind can be fun, but a dirty heart is problematic.

When you are at something, but can't ascertain what it is, which is deceived, the eyes or the mind, or both?

The eyes see what is there. The mind, on the other hand, might have problems figuring out what the eyes are seeing.

Do black people call white people God?

No. Why would they?

Why is prayer recognized as a conversation with God?

To have a conversation, both parties must talk. Have you heard God talk? Prayer is a "conversation" with yourself, providing you come up with answers. Otherwise, you're just pissing in the wind.

Can you say you know everything about yourself?

At 71 years of age, I know everything I want to know about myself.

Is there a correlation between God's love and material wealth? Can this theory be proven or disproven?

No. God loves the poor if the poor can love God. Wealth means nothing to God unless you use the wealth selflessly for the poor.

"Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love."

-- 1 John 4:8

What are the rewards for being righteous according to God?

Heaven, nirvana, or a chance to move forward into the next life so you can learn more.

What do you call a person who doesn't believe in Christianity?

It depends on what they believe in. They can believe in Buddhism, atheism, or something else. “Belief” is a deep well.

Even if atheists don't believe in God, at least go to church on Sundays and donate a little. At least do this so that maybe some of your sins will be forgiven. What do you think?

But, they don’t believe in God. The rest of your statement is moot.

What does a person do if they feel not needed in this world?

Do something that is needed in the world. Feeding the hungry masses… is my humble thought. Doing “selfless” projects can steer you into something more meaningful.

Can obsession with your own progress blind you to the growth of others?

An “obsession” can blind you to anything but your obsession.

What does it mean for someone to admit they were wrong about something?

They are honest in their opinions. If they think they are wrong, they are honest in saying they might be wrong. It takes a selfless person to admit that they might be wrong. It can make others think about their own opinions.

“It is very unnerving to be proven wrong, particularly when you are really right and the person who is really wrong is proving you wrong and proving himself, wrongly, right.”

-- Lemony Snicket

What do you want? What are you doing daily? If your daily actions are not moving you in the direction you want, you will never get what you want. Common sense, isn't it?

Yes, it is. I’m 71 years old and started in the direction I wanted when I was 21. The only mistake I made, was my marriage. I solved that little hiccup with a divorce.

I have a strong feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me. How can I find out?

If you trust him so little, why are you with him?

I have always heard about gratitude, this, and gratitude that. My question is: What exactly is gratitude, and how do we genuinely implement it into our lives?

Gratitude is a feeling of thanks. You implement it into your life by recognizing the feeling. If someone has done something for you, you can thank them for their effort. If you have succeeded in a project, you can thank yourself for your effort. Gratitude, if we all recognize the benefit, and give oral thanks, can make the world a better place.

Do you always fish like that?

It depends on the woman. 

What does it mean to be a genuine person?

You are a lying, cheating, gaming piece of shit. I hope to never be a “genuine person” in my lifetime. It takes quite a bit of effort to not be a genuine person, but it is worth it.

What makes truth true?

It lays out the provable facts that what someone is saying is true.

“It is the absence of facts that frightens people: the gap you open, into which they pour their fears, fantasies, desires.”

-- Hilary Mantel

Why do billionaires who can buy anything they can imagine seek more?

Because they “can buy anything they can imagine.” I used your own words.

How do I deal with the feeling of falling behind, or underperforming, in life?

Don’t fall behind and find yourself underperforming in life. It’s a pretty good philosophy I have followed since high school.

Why do people take advantage of you?

They don’t. They try, which makes me laugh.

Why did people decide that the majority preference is the right preference? Does it mean that conventional social justice was built upon mob justice?

Not all people follow the “majority preference.” It is occasionally not so right. If you go along with the crowd, you have become another lemming running off the cliff. You need to consider the facts and make your own decision as to what is right.

What is the most satisfying moment in your lifetime?

So far, the birth of my son. And then, the birth of my daughter.

What’s the most profound lesson about love you’ve learned through the years, and how has it shaped the way you see relationships today?

Being a man does not make me right. You have to be a partner with your significant other. You are sometimes right and sometimes wrong, so get over it. The best couples are best friends and best friends understand each other.

“All men make mistakes, but a good man yields when he knows his course is wrong, and repairs the evil. The only crime is pride.”

-- Sophocles

Is there a way to determine if the universe is looking out for you?

I am looking out for me. The universe has more to do than worry about little ol’ me. We have ourselves to look out for. To think someone has our best interests at heart is ignorant. If they blink, we could be dead. We should take control of the reins and look out for ourselves.

What if I can never be a genius, because I never learned another language?

Learning another language does not make you a genius.

How do you focus on yourself and leave others?

Well, that is selfish. Have you thought about how you are going to ignore other people? It is not so easy. It’s like… you are going to focus on yourself. Focussing on yourself, to the detriment of everybody else, is not so easy, either.

Is being an atheist a gateway to a life a sin?

Not anymore than being a Christian.

Can atheists understand the concept of "love" when they have only hate for God?

True atheists don’t hate God. You have to accept something to hate it. Atheists don’t accept the concept of a God, so how would they form hate for something they don’t accept? Or, perhaps, I don’t understand the question.

Why is God punishing Los Angeles?

Los Angeles is punishing themselves. Don’t bring God into this.

"God isn't waiting to punish you. He's waiting to shower you with his love and compassion."

-- Debra L. Butterfield

Editor's Note

(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch - it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either view any more right or wrong than the other. Opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form their own opinions, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint.

I fervently hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion in an arena of mutual respect concerning those opinions offered. After twenty-three years of military intelligence, I believe that engaging each other in this manner, and in this arena, is a way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience... and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and senior manager. Following his service career, he spent 17 years working with the premier and world-renowned Western Institutional Review Board, helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research. He also served 8 years on the Board of Directors for the Angela J. Bowen Foundation.

Ordained in 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As a weapon for his war on intolerance, he chose the pen. He wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's personal, spiritual path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony at: tolerantpastor@gmail.com