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Tuesday, August 2, 2022

Questioning Ethics, Lies, Morals, Rules, and A.I.

 

“Before we work on artificial intelligence why don’t we do something about natural stupidity?”
-- Steve Polyak


What is the relationship between resource loss, resource gains, and job satisfaction during Covid-19?
Bad, but all things being equal, not as bad as it’s been during the reign of Biden. Recovering from Covid would have happened in short order. Recovering from what Biden is doing to us will have economical consequences that might stretch on for years, if not lifetimes.
Why does your boss often give you more salary than you should get?
She wanted me, and I was constantly weak?
What is loyalty, and why is it important?
It is a moral ethic. If you cannot be loyal, you have a moral prerogative to be honest (another moral ethic) and to step away from whatever you pledged loyalty to. To do anything else would be lying by omission, and, at this point, you become a disloyal lying traitor with no ethics you can speak to… honestly.
Why would a grown man randomly start squeezing a teen boy's bicep while talking to his parents about something irrelevant?
Why would a parent not question it?
What is your opinion on the phrase "you can't change people"?
Most people have no idea they're being manipulated. Even blatant manipulation escapes them. If they can be manipulated, they can be changed. You just have to work on the weak mind.
What is the feeling when everything seems right?

Elation?
How do I develop the community into a sustainable area for all the vulnerable people?
You have to convince the community by bringing them into the process.
Which people are the most deceptive?
Liars. Is this a trick question, or did I not understand it? 
Can one become less wise over time? Aging is generally thought to add wisdom.
Yes, but living life over time, is a good key to wisdom. If you don’t live life, you learn very little about the ways of life. Sitting at home and vegetating is not conducive to creating wisdom.
Everyone has crazy ideas that sometimes you are afraid to share with others. What's the coolest idea you've had and would like to implement?
Develop an open-minded meditation/spiritual center, with a small auditorium, cafe’, and garden to walk through that has shaded contemplation areas and an 8-foot wall for privacy and noise abatement. Yeah, the recent $1 billion dollar lottery would have funded it. Oh well, better luck next time.

Reader comment:  Nah. You can take a trip to one for way less than that.

My reply:  Yeah, but there isn’t one locally, and if it’s fully funded the rest of the money would make it sustainable into the future.
“Everything is created twice, first in the mind and then in reality.”
-- Robin Sharma
How many different doctors will you begin to see as you move into your sixties?
I’m almost 70, and I see a dentist, an optometrist, a chiropractor, a general practitioner, a urologist, and a gastroenterologist. I have had this list since I was in my late forties, and it has served me well.
Is an omission of a truth a lie?
It’s why they call it a “lie by omission.”
What causes some people to be afraid of failure and others not?
Failures and mistakes are opportunities life presents us so we can learn. Why fear something that life is teaching you so you can learn from it and move forward? Society has conditioned us to fear mistakes and failures, yet those who are successful in life see the lessons for what they are and have learned from them. We should all be more receptive to mistakes and failure, well, at least once. If you constantly make the same mistake or failure, there is a deeper problem.
Is the most valuable lesson learned from Hitler that an entire population can be easily mind controlled and not know it, and to always question WHY you're doing what you're doing instead of going along with status quo and collective expectations?
I think Joe Biden being voted in as President is evidence of this.
Life is so not fair sometimes! Y can't society treat me as the version of loony that I am instead of wanting me to be a dangerous paranoid loon? Has anyone considered I actually like the version of loon that I identify with best?
If you aren’t a “dangerous paranoid loon” then you should ignore the segment of society that considers you to be dangerous and paranoid and be the loony toon you choose to be. What you need to do is stay on this side of the law, however, and not give them a reason for “commitment” proceedings.
Which literary work can serve as an antidepressant for a reader?
“The Complete Tales of Winnie the Pooh” by A.A. Milne
If you are tasked with mentoring someone to become more compassionate, what would you teach him or her? How would you approach this with someone who finds this concept difficult to grasp?
I’d find something in their life that needs compassion and hammer home a non-compassionate attitude until they balk. When they balk is the time to explain how they felt while receiving no compassion. If they didn’t appreciate it, how do they think others would?
How do you deal with inconvenient market situations?
It is what it is. I don’t fret about those situations over which I have no control. The market will, more than likely, correct itself. It always does. Even Joe Biden can’t permanently screw this up. 
Why is it so hard for me to make a choice and stick to it?
You are what we used to call “wishy-washy.” You want this, but you also want that, and, God forbid, you might just want something else if someone offers it.
Why is it natural that people and governments lose interest in conflicts as they drag on?
It takes a toll on finances, the number of soldiers they can throw away, the amount of equipment they can produce, the interest of their population, and world sentiment. This is a primary reason governments form alliances. A “world war” where the lion’s share of everything benefits one side over the other, usually dictates the winner.
Concerning Ukraine:  

“It’s not that people really like what Putin does. No, but they feel frustration and depression because they cannot change anything. It’s like bad weather. They realize that it’s going to rain every day. But what can they do about it? The mood in Russia now is that ‘We want this to be over as soon as possible because we just can’t live like this any longer. We want to get back to normal life."
-- Fyodor Krasheninnikov
Will morals change?
The good ones or the bad ones? Probably not. There must be a balance of opposites - good and bad, light and dark, sweet and sour, or we forget there is another side. There will always be good and bad morals.

We might bend a “good” moral to meet societal expectations, and that bending might be seen by some as bad. The original moral is still good, but our interpretation is bad. This argument of good and bad is playing out with the abortion of human life; those who think it is fine to choose death, and those who think it is appalling not to choose life.

Once again, I find myself waiting the arrival of the League fo the Perpetually Offended.
Can other people's motivation affect your own?
Yes, if we’re working against each other toward the same goal.
Who agrees with me and my friend Mohammed when we say that your prime years are from 18 to 40 and after that are your wisdom years?
There are exceptions, but I can get on board with this.
Are programmers who engage in 'promiscuous mode' in their personal lives more effective than their conservative peers?
This doesn’t just hold true for programmers. I think everybody in “promiscuous mode” is more apt to be more effective than other people. Can you really call them your “peers” if they aren’t engaged in the “promiscuous mode”?
Why do you have no desire to be social?
Not.
Would you define kindness as altruistic, or is it fundamentally selfish?
If it is “altruistic” it can’t be seen as fundamentally selfish for the simple reason that altruism is defined as “the belief in or practice of disinterested and selfless concern for the well-being of others.” It can’t be selfless and be seen as selfish. Just saying.
How do I evaluate an ethical dilemma?
Ask, why the dilemma is ethical. The reasons become, for the most part, the evaluation. 
Can we consciously control motivation?
Yes. We choose to be motivated or not. We choose what we want to be motivated for and we also choose why. If I am in a race, I am motivated to win. Why? Because it is a contest, and I am not motivated to lose. We can also be subconsciously motivated when it comes to an emergency or survival. There is a “knee jerk” reaction that kicks in.
What is a good question to ask and answer about yourself?
What is my opinion of “organized” religion?
Why should we refuse the ambition to become Hitler?
If you want to be responsible for the murder of 15,003,000 to 31,595,000 people in the world, it is a questionable ambition that will end in your eventual suicide. Vladimir Putin is currently dabbling with this notion, but, then, he is an idiot the Russians should do away with.
“Brutality is respected. Brutality and physical strength. The plain man in the street respects nothing but brutal strength and ruthlessness. Women too, for that matter, women and children. The people need wholesome fear. They want to fear something. They want someone to frighten them and make them shudderingly submissive.”
-- Adolf Hitler
Has anyone ever theorized an optimum ratio for being selfish vs. being selfless?
Is there an “optimum” ratio for anything that is wrong? There shouldn't be. It validates "wrong" as an option. It really isn't.  The optimum would be “0” over “100” in favor of good if anyone concerned with being “right” theorized it. How can anyone come up with an honest ratio of how much “selfishness” is acceptable for society? If we accept the theorized ratio, we have approved selfishness up to that point, but no further? I am not an advocate of approving selfishness for no good reason. 
Reader comment: Look at it this way: you could be 100% selfish or you could be 100% selfless. Neither extreme is optimal for you AND society. Is there a theoretical percentage that could be considered the ‘sweet spot between doing enough for yourself and doing enough for society?

My reply: Again, an “acceptable” amount of selfishness is approved of (I know I'm typing, but no one is reading). 
"Fear of failure leads to failure."? Can you justify it?
No, because it doesn’t always hold true. Fear of failure may make you work harder to mitigate that failure. 
Is worry necessary for success?
Worry keeps you checking to see that you haven’t wandered from the path to attain your goal. “Success” in life is making a conscious choice to be truly happy always and in all things, including attaining your goals, regardless of your circumstances.
How do I eliminate my desire for social interaction?
Become a member of the League of the Perpetually Offended and learn to hate everyone. Your desire for “social interaction” will be viewed as offensive.
What was easier at the age of 20 but difficult as you get old?
Getting up out of a low chair.
Are we obligated to return a favor?
Only by societal standards. But doing a “selfless” favor, by definition, requires no return of the favor in kind, and should not be expected.
Why isn't imitation the sincerest form of flattery? How did you arrive at your conclusion?
If it is truly and purposely insulting to the target of the imitation.
Why do people value labor over ideas?
Ideas are pretty easy. Labor, on the other hand, usually requires, well, labor. People are willing to pay other people to do the labor for them. It’s an “idea” that saves them time and effort. 
What do successful people believe about failure?
It exists and they are constantly on the lookout for it. Being prepared can mitigate the effect.
What's a rule you strongly dislike?
Just because your car has a handicap indicator, anyone driving it can park in handicap parking. I dislike when rules allow abuse as much as I dislike those who feel they have the right to abuse.

I’m retired military, and I know vets who have the handicap indicator on their vehicles because they meet the VA "requirement." They meet it, but they don’t need it. They abuse a system struggling to support vets as it is. Again, rules are designed to be abused by people who love to abuse them.

I’m almost deaf in both ears, but I can still hear. I don’t use the VA medical care, and I don’t milk them for hearing aids. My hearing is so much less important than amputees who can’t get the quality care they really need from the government. Yeah, these rules really piss me off.
“The greatest crimes in the world are not committed by people breaking the rules but by people following the rules.”
-- Banksy
What was easier at the age of 20 but more difficult than you at the age of 40?
Dating, though the quality of the women definitely went up a bunch, I think my quality didn’t really keep up until after 50 when I realized I’d not been paying attention. Divorce will clear your head a bit, and put you back on a good path.
Is “workaholism” widespread in the US?
No.
What would you do if you received a call from your future self?
I'd probably mess myself.
I'm thinking of becoming a "femcel" should I do it?
I had to look this one up. If you feel you meet the definition to become one, I suppose it is a matter of choice. As a choice, you have the right to change it if it doesn’t work out for you. For instance, many people have vowed celibacy only to change their minds when the right person came along.

Romantic relationships are now accepted between women, as is sex. The abuse can also be found in “same-sex” relationships. The definition provided by “TruFemcels” needs some work so they don’t sound like my favorite hate group, the League of the Perpetually Offended.
What happens when you don't make an effort at work?
You are the recipient of a “pink slip.”
What are the chances of success without hard work and luck?
Slim to none. Casinos make mega cash off of people relying on luck to attain their goals. Knowledge and hard work usually work out in the end. If you rely on luck you’ve already failed.
What do nice guys deserve?
Nice girls. Or, nice guys, depending on your preference. 
Does the internet make us more suspicious of each other? Why or why not?
Because we aren’t communicating face-to-face, there is no guarantee people are who they say they are. It is also much easier to lie when people can’t see your expression or your body language.

How easy is this? I once told a woman, over the phone, I could make her do anything. She balked at this so I hung up and looked at my watch. About 15 seconds later she called back and chewed me out for hanging up. I waited for her to finish then I said, “Made you call me back.” She hung up. Funny, I never heard from her again.
What will happen when AI meets morality?
Nothing, if AI is programmed appropriately.
What did S. Hawking mean by saying “AI’s impact could be cataclysmic” unless its rapid development is strictly and ethically controlled?

His concern was one Asimov had, as well:
“The Three Laws of Robotics (often shortened to The Three Laws or known as Asimov's Laws) are a set of rules devised by science fiction author Isaac Asimov. The rules were introduced in his 1942 short story "Runaround" (included in the 1950 collection I, Robot), although they had been foreshadowed in some earlier stories. The Three Laws, quoted from the "Handbook of Robotics, 56th Edition, 2058 A.D.", are:

First Law: A robot may not injure a human being or, through inaction, allow a human being to come to harm.

Second Law: A robot must obey the orders given it by human beings except where such orders would conflict with the First Law.

Third Law: A robot must protect its own existence as long as such protection does not conflict with the First or Second Law.

These form an organizing principle and unifying theme for Asimov's robotic-based fiction, appearing in his Robot series, the stories linked to it, and his Lucky Starr series of young-adult fiction. The Laws are incorporated into almost all of the positronic robots appearing in his fiction, and cannot be bypassed, being intended as a safety feature. Many of Asimov's robot-focused stories involve robots behaving in unusual and counter-intuitive ways as an unintended consequence of how the robot applies the Three Laws to the situation in which it finds itself. Other authors working in Asimov's fictional universe have adopted them and references, often parodic, appear throughout science fiction as well as in other genres.

The original laws have been altered and elaborated on by Asimov and other authors. Asimov himself made slight modifications to the first three in various books and short stories to further develop how robots would interact with humans and each other. In later fiction where robots had taken responsibility for government of whole planets and human civilizations, Asimov also added a fourth, or zeroth law, to precede the others:

Zeroth Law: A robot may not harm humanity, or, by inaction, allow humanity to come to harm.

The Three Laws, and the zeroth, have pervaded science fiction and are referred to in many books, films, and other media. They have affected thought on ethics of artificial intelligence as well.”


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(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

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It is my fervent hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions and while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion, in an arena of mutual respect, concerning those opinions put forth. After over twenty years with military intelligence, I have come to believe engaging each other in this manner and in this arena is the way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience, and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with the United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and, finally, a senior manager. He spent 17 years, following his service career, working with the premier, world-renowned, Western Institutional Review Board helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research.
Ordained 1n 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As the weapon for his war on intolerance he chose the pen, and wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's own personal, spiritual, path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He currently resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony:  tolerantpastor@gmail.com

Questioning Ideas, Life, Reality, Work, and Ethics

 

“He's half my ex-husband's age, but twice as energetic when we have sex. And twice as grateful afterward.”
-- Barbara Taylor Bradford

 

What are three important goals in your life right now?
Stay truly happy always, live to be 99, and take care of my mother.
Even though every individual is expected to be a critical thinker, it is common to see people think not. What are the factors that affect the habit of critical thinking?

I don’t expect everyone to be a “critical” thinker. People are too self-absorbed for that. The ones that have discovered the habit of critical thinking, have made enough mistakes or failures to ask the logical question and try to improve their lives. The question they ask is, “Why?” They usually find the answer to be their own inability to make good choices and decisionsWhy? Simpler, yet. They find they don’t think deeply enough before they act. They don’t weigh the good and the bad, the pros and the cons, and they really don’t seem to consider the consequences of failure or the wrong choice.

What do you do each day to stimulate your senses?
Answer questions on this site.
Has anybody accused you of mocking them for trying to comfort and/or satisfy them?
Except for the members of the League of the Perpetually Offended, the majority have been very appreciative.
At what age did you truly come into your own?
At age 24, when I earned the rank of sergeant.
“For a man to be worthy of any rank, he must strive first to be a man.”
-- Lloyd Alexander
What are some examples of weaknesses?
Addictions. Low self-esteem. Inability to stand up for one’s self. Crumbling in the face of adversity. 
What are the signs that one thinks they are smart but they are in fact not?
They constantly fail or make poor choices and decisions, or both. They may, in fact, be very intelligent, but they just aren’t that smart.
If I did something bad in school and I try to give money to a teacher, is it bribery?
Ya think?
What is your real opinion of the CBS reality show "Big Brother," which recently began its 24th season in a house of roommates filled with TV cameras 24/7? How long (or little) have you watched it?
Too much "directed" drama, for me. Its longevity is evidence that the people watching it need to get a life of their own.
All of my friends are graduates (engineers, scientists) now, but I am the only one failing every year at college. Why? Is God showing me that I don't belong at university?
God isn’t showing you anything. This is you shifting the blame on God. Probably not the wisest move. God gave us everything we need to attain our goals in life, we simply have to make use of them. Some are better equipped to make use than others. Try putting your nose to the grindstone and stop making excuses for failure. Failure is, after all, the best way we learn.
“Some of the valuable lessons you won’t learn in class or from people, but you will learn them from life. You will only learn them when you choose to take accountability, accept responsibility for the mistakes you make, and don’t shift the blame. Life teaches some of us to learn in a hard way and others never learn their lessons at all, until death catches up with them before their time.”
-- De philosopher DJ Kyos
How best can you define a successful nation?
Secure borders, the rule of law, a constitution, a freely elected patriotic governing body, and secure voting. The United States is beginning to fail on most of these. 

If you don't have high standards, do you have double standards?
The U.S. government doesn't, usually, exercise high standards, but they always find a use for double standards. This might provide evidence that having high standards mitigates the corrupt use of double standards.
What is the difference between thinking about someone and thinking of someone?
I think of you so I can think about you. I think of you, and then I can think about what we could be doing with each other. Any clearer, and this will be in the gutter.
Who came up with "sleep is for the weak" and what does it actually mean if one is trying to be productive since it seems like more and more people are using this phrase as an excuse for not getting enough rest on a daily basis?
It is meant to make soldiers keep fighting on the battlefield. Any other use for it, other than to win some battle, is ignorant. A good night's sleep will make you stronger and ready to “attack” the world and the lessons life throws at us.
How can I help my brother grow?
Mentoring, experience, and support. Help him develop his own path and travel it.
“Stay afraid, but do it anyway. What’s important is the action. You don’t have to wait to be confident. Just do it and eventually, the confidence will follow.”
-- Carrie Fisher
What are one or two reasons to be afraid of what TikTok is becoming?
China. Scares the hell out of me.
Who said, “Know thyself”? What did they mean by this? Why should we follow this advice?
Socrates. If you know who you are, you will know what to expect of yourself. Being yourself, however, might be advice better ignored, especially if who you are is a questionable ass. But, knowing you are a questionable ass provides you with the knowledge you need to strive to become something better.
Does "whatever" mean none of your business?
It means the information being provided is so much less important than the point being made.
When is the right time to move on from one goal and choose another?
Unless you are a multi-tasker, then, when you have attained the goal.
What are some good jobs for people who don't want to think?
“Grunt” labor comes to mind. It is physically exhausting, and doesn’t pay much, but, then, you don’t really have to think to shovel dirt, or sweep floors.
"Work hard, not in grunt work, but in chasing such opportunities and maximizing exposure to them. This makes living in big cities invaluable because you increase the odds of serendipitous encounters-you gain exposure to the envelope of serendipity." 
-- Nassim Nicholas Taleb
What do you think of the phrase, “Never underestimate yourself and never overestimate others.”?
If you underestimate yourself, you might never move forward. If you overestimate others, they will probably disappoint you.
What is something that will be around in 200 years?
Precious stones, precious metals, matter in general, gravity, yadda, yadda, yadda…
What was the worst type of adversity that you eventually overcame?
My divorce. She took everything, including my children, and left me with child support. My lawyer promised I would overcome it in five years. She was right, and I’ve been a happy camper ever since.
What are some examples of greed and selfishness?
The handling of the southern border of the United States by the current administration. They are not carrying out their responsibilities under the law, nor are they being patriotic. That leaves greed, selfishness, and, most probably, criminal malfeasance.
What should you not do when choosing a career?
Stress. Strive to be truly happy always and in all things, including choosing a career. You can change up many times, as many people have.
“In times of stress, the best thing we can do for each other is to listen with our ears and our hearts and to be assured that our questions are just as important as our answers.”
-- Fred Rogers
What popular idea can you refute in one sentence?
Joe Biden was a poor choice.
How do I make a reason for her to talk with me online?
You don’t have to “make” a reason. Simply ask her. If she says “yes” she is interested, if not, find another person to be friends with. Never start a relationship by playing selfish games. The relationship will always be based on that.
What's the difference between "idea" and "notion"?
If you have the idea that you might do something, this is more of a notion:

“I have a notion that you might want to hit me.”

“I had the idea that you might have a notion that I might want to hit you.”

“Do you?”

“No, but, let's just say, having that notion isn’t off the table, yet.”
What if we had to rebuild human society from scratch?
It would take 12,000 years, and, in the process, we would screw it up just as well. 
Can you share a story with me? It can be in relation to anything.
“Sex,” I was pretty sure, meant whether you were a boy or girl, and “sin” made Tante Jans very angry, but what the two together meant I could not imagine. And so, seated next to Father in the train compartment, I suddenly asked, “Father, what is sexsin?”

He turned to look at me, as he always did when answering a question, but to my surprise he said nothing. At last, he stood up, lifted his traveling case from the rack over our heads, and set it on the floor.

“Will you carry it off the train, Corrie?” he said.

I stood up and tugged at it. It was crammed with the watches and spare parts he had purchased that morning.

“It’s too heavy,” I said.

“Yes,” he said. “And it would be a pretty poor father who would ask his little girl to carry such a load. It’s the same way, Corrie, with knowledge. Some knowledge is too heavy for children. When you are older and stronger you can bear it. For now, you must trust me to carry it for you.”

- from The Hiding Place: The Story of Corrie Ten Boom

“We are asking our children to carry loads that are way too heavy for them. They should not be forced, as children, to see and feel the world through the lens of adults. Innocence is worth protecting and worth fighting for. We need to do our part as teachers, parents, and caregivers to carry certain things for them until they are old enough to bear the load.” 
-- Clint Bryant
What is the meaning of life all about?
Knowledge, learning to make good choices and decisions, and making the conscious choice to be truly happy always and in all things, regardless of your circumstances. Everything we do is in preparation for moving forward in existence. You learn the lessons life places before you, or you learn the lessons later, but, in order to move forward on your journey, you will have to learn the lessons. Such is life, now or in the next.
I got all A’s in my junior high school classes, but I think that I’m ignorant in real life. What should I do?
Immerse yourself in real life. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes or fail, as these are the best ways we learn. Strive to be truly happy always and in all things, regardless of your circumstances, and the wisdom of life will follow.
Does empathy guarantee altruism?
Not necessarily. I think “selflessness” would be more apt to guarantee altruism.
What is the most common ethical violation?
Honesty.
How is humility an absolutely necessary personality trait for any good leader?
The best leaders are those that think others should lead. Humility is not a lack of strength. To be humble takes a good bit of effort, especially in the face of overwhelming odds. To win with mercy is to humble oneself before a defeated foe. To lead with mercy is to humble oneself before one’s followers.
"I have three precious things which I hold fast and prize. The first is gentleness; the second is frugality; the third is humility, which keeps me from putting myself before others. Be gentle and you can be bold; be frugal and you can be liberal; avoid putting yourself before others and you can become a leader among men."
-- Lao-Tzu
What is your ethical guide to cheating the system?
Ethics and cheating are polar opposites. You can’t be ethical and cheat, as the ethic of honesty would prevent it.
How do you know if your vision will become real?
You don’t, not until it is. 
How do you cope with the seriousness of life?
Strive to be truly happy always and in all things, regardless of your circumstances. Don’t invite unwanted drama into your life, and always make good choices and decisions.
What is a one-line motivation that changed your life?
“Failure is not an option.”
What is humanly possible to do and be and what is humanly impossible to do and be?
Be yourself, because you can’t be God. Do what you can, because God has more than enough to do without carrying your load, as well.
"To be, or not to be: that is the question:
Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,
Or to take arms against a sea of troubles,
And by opposing end them? To die: to sleep;
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks
That flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation
Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep;
To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub;
For in that sleep of death what dreams may come
When we have shuffled off this mortal coil..."
-- William Shakespeare
What are the previous unethical situations in your industry?
I’ve had two jobs in my life, the Intelligence field, and the premier Institutional Review Board. Both were heavy on ethical regulations and behavior. Unethical situations were our purview, not our issue.
Should working be treated as love, obligatory, or both? What do you think?
Always love what you do, or why do it? If you choose to do it, you are obligating yourself to those you are working for, and with, to do your best.
What do you think Putin is going to do to impact the world and humanity, after the way he has destroyed Ukraine?
Make a move on Europe.
Why are my expectations so high?
Do you enjoy disappointment? Learn to be truly happy always and in all things. Expect nothing out of life. Take what life gives you, what you earn. This is all any of us can possibly expect. 
Why do people act like the military is the only way to be successful in life?
It isn’t, and we don’t. However, we have programs that train us to attain our goals. This is what we do. If we fail, the money spent on training was a waste. We also have programs to prevent waste. When we take what we learn into the civilian sector, we are more apt to continue attaining our goals. Employers who want to attain goals appreciate this attitude. It becomes a “win-win” for all.
“Soldiers can sometimes make decisions that are smarter than the orders they've been given.”
-- Orson Scott Card
Is the reason why the work ethics in America suck because people don't want to support this society?
No, that’s just one sorry ass excuse. The reason has to do with finding anybody wanting to put out the real effort to do quality work. They think it’s easier to whine, complain, and suck from the public teat.

What is a good example of a lack of Professional ethics?

Paul and Nancy Pelosi?
What is your ethical perspective on suicide?
Don’t do it. Barring seriously painful health issues that precede death, suicide is not an ethical choice. It is morally irresponsible and shows a lack of loyalty and honesty to one’s self.
What is the most morally wrong thing you’ve done?
Slept with my supervisor. Hey, she instigated it.
Why does it feel so good to have satisfying sex with an older woman?
It feels so good to have “satisfying” sex with any woman. The older they are, however, the more they appreciate the effort we put into it.  That's what my supervisor told me, anyway, when we were done.

“In all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these: 
1. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor’d with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.

2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.

3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc’d may be attended with much Inconvenience.

4. Because thro’ more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin’d to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.

5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.

6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.

7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.

8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!”
-- Benjamin Franklin


Editor's Note
(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch, it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either opinion any more right or wrong than the other. An opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form opinions of their own, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint. 

It is my fervent hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions and while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion, in an arena of mutual respect, concerning those opinions put forth. After over twenty years with military intelligence, I have come to believe engaging each other in this manner and in this arena is the way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience, and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with the United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and, finally, a senior manager. He spent 17 years, following his service career, working with the premier, world-renowned, Western Institutional Review Board helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research.
Ordained 1n 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As the weapon for his war on intolerance he chose the pen, and wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's own personal, spiritual, path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He currently resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony:  tolerantpastor@gmail.com

Questioning Bias, Change, Opinion, Immunity, and Masks

 

“No man, for any considerable period, can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude, without finally getting bewildered as to which may be the true.”
-- Nathaniel Hawthorne

Is marketing all about exploiting the cognitive biases of people?
Bullshitting or exploiting, cognitively impaired, or not, people keep getting sucked in.
Anaïs Nin said, "Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage," but what gives us courage, and how do we avoid being foolish?
The will to persevere in the face of overwhelming odds gives us courage. Being foolish simply happens by not thinking before we act. Being foolish is how we learn.
Is it good to ask when you don't know?
Yes, it is how we learn.
Being a successful person in life, should you tell your children to follow in your steps and act the same way you did to guarantee their success?
You can, but it prevents the child from following their own path. As their life unfolds, it may be that their path is, indeed, the same as yours. But, wouldn’t it be better for them to find their own path through life, with some insightful mentoring from the parent? If they are really all that, they will be as successful in their own way.
What are the morals that people sacrifice to be in Hollywood?
The list will be so much shorter in discussing what they don’t.
“The only reason I'm in Hollywood is that I don't have the moral courage to refuse the money.”
-- Marlon Brando
How much has your life changed between 2020 and 2022?
Considering we’re being forced to live under socialist rule, our children are being indoctrinated, our freedoms are being curtailed, and the cost of living has doubled under current socialist leadership, what do you think?
Must a critical thinker win an argument at all costs? Why or why not?
No. A critical thinker knows to keep an open mind, lest they miss a valuable point they didn’t consider. Critical thinkers look for validation of their critique, not to win despite it. 
What does it say about someone who gets upset at people wanting to learn by asking questions?
Sounds like a member of the League of the Per[petually Offended. They are not a mentor and have little concept of learning. I’ll bet they ask more questions than they answer, and call people disparaging names.
Why do or don't you believe/think you're crazy?
You mean, other than the voices in my head?
What does it mean for people to take responsibility for their lives? Is it my fault I'm not as successful as I want to be?
It means that your life belongs to you. What happens in it, to it, with it, is up to you. If you aren’t as successful as you want to be, work harder. Life is about making good choices and decisions, and persevering in the face of overwhelming odds.

Start by asking “why” at the beginning of questions. “Why” am I not as successful as I want to be. Then, honestly answer it. You will find it is due to a choice you made and have not corrected. For example: Why are you unhappy? You work at a job that sucks. Why did you accept the position if the job sucks? You didn’t do enough research to know. Why are you still working there? You are too lazy to look for a better job.

We can shift the blame for our life onto others but, when we look at our lives honestly, our issues are usually the result of choices and decisions we have made and not corrected.
“Most people do not really want freedom, because freedom involves responsibility, and most people are frightened of responsibility.”
-- Sigmund Freud
Did you ever make an entire group of airline passengers laugh?
Back when I first joined the military. We would travel as a group to meetings and get hammered on the flight to and from. We would sing and tell jokes. The passengers and the flight crew, for the most part, loved us.
What do you think about Jiafei?
Another sales gimmick.
What's your opinion on assumptions?
I try not to make them. Unfortunately, on this site assumptions are part and parcel of people not able to form good cogent questions and answers. Grammar, spelling, and context are a challenge. I find myself falling back to being a smartass. Not a signature moment.
Why do people respond "no," and then proceed to give the same answer? Do they not see they are saying the same thing?
But, aren’t they more right? They probably think they are, at any rate. Or, they might want to restate a pretty clear answer so it is clearer.
What is false cause and effect?
A lie.
“Choices made, whether bad or good, follow you forever and affect everyone in their path one way or another.”
-- J.E.B. Spredemann
In what situations has honesty been the best policy?
If you operate with a good sense of moral ethics, all situations should be dealt with honestly.
What groups in the US are seemingly immune from accountability?
The President’s Administration, Congress, and the FBI all seem to think so.
Why do we care about the future generation when we won't be around?
Just as the generations that went before, they will screw up everything we leave them. Fortunately, the current President and his cabinet are making this a moot point. The future generation will have to turn shit into worse shit. As socialists, this might not be beyond them.
What is the best way to get people to cooperate with you?

Pay them the big money. It is an unfortunate possibility that a sense of good ethics is vulnerable, for the most part, to being bribed. 
When someone does something intelligent but cannot explain it, what's it called?
Being right. The fact they can’t explain it is immaterial.
“The more a person needs to be right, the less certain he is.”
-- Meir Ezra
What personality type tends to overshare personal details?
Boisterous, and with no filter.
Why is 30 the age when you're forbidden from everything?
That’s not right. At 30 I was into everything. Most people in military intelligence were. Have times really changed that much?
Are Dane Adams' three books on dark psychology worth buying and reading?
I didn’t know they were out there. I’ll read them and see.
Will wearing a mask to an interview affect my chances of getting the job if the company does not require them?
If they’re looking for serious employees and not class clowns, I would think this might be detrimental to a positive outcome, yes. 
How did Zelensky learn to be such a tough negotiator?
He’s a patriot and they invaded his country.
"If there is no Ukrainian strong army, there will be no Ukraine, and that will be the case when everyone will understand... it's not the war in Ukraine, it's the war in Europe. We are defending our country, our land. We are not attacking anyone, because that is immoral."
-- Volodymyr Zelensky


Editor's Note
(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch, it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either opinion any more right or wrong than the other. An opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form opinions of their own, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint. 

It is my fervent hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions and while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion, in an arena of mutual respect, concerning those opinions put forth. After over twenty years with military intelligence, I have come to believe engaging each other in this manner and in this arena is the way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience, and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with the United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and, finally, a senior manager. He spent 17 years, following his service career, working with the premier, world-renowned, Western Institutional Review Board helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research.
Ordained 1n 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As the weapon for his war on intolerance he chose the pen, and wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's own personal, spiritual, path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He currently resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony:  tolerantpastor@gmail.com

Questioning Help, Success, Abortion, and Happiness

 
“The best antidote I know for worry is work. The best cure for weariness is the challenge of helping someone who is even more tired. One of the great ironies of life is this: He or she who serves almost always benefits more than he or she who is served.”
-- Gordon B. Hinckley


People say you can help them. How?
Ask them. How in hell would we know?
How would you describe the difference between a blank stare and vacant eyes?
A blank stare is when someone really isn’t seeing because their mind is busy doing something else. Vacant eyes are a sign that no one is home.
How far along am I on the track to success?
If you have to ask, I’d say not very far.
In your opinion, has “unregulated” access to the Internet ruined how people think? Do you think it negatively impacts concepts such as intellectual humility, self-learning, and individuality? Or is it just changing the perceived society’s trajectory?
I think that unregulated access to online pornography ruined how some people think. What? I’m sorry. One of the voices in the back of my head made me type this. Please ignore it.
Reader comment: LOL, same thought. However, I’m interested in hearing your reasoning behind that conclusion. Maybe a summary, if it’s something you’ve researched in great detail.

My reply: Nope, just my unsupervised observation(s). 
What is the problem with great power competition?
There will be a winner.
“I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.”
-- Albert Einstein
Why are corrupt people more successful in life?
It is what it is until it isn’t. Sooner or later, corruption will come full circle in their life, or after.
Why don't we have more effective altruism?

Ineffective use of the donation. 100% is the best one can hope for. Unfortunately, our altruism falls far short when we let others dictate how it is used. Television ads, mailings, and administration costs, all subtract from one’s altruistic attempt. One would be better served to take food to a food bank or soup kitchen.

There are online sources for the percentage charities actually spend after expenses. This will assist in having “more effective altruism.” 

How does one stop falling back into their old naive self?
Pay attention.
What makes a failed society?
Lawlessness. Disrespect for the “Rule of Law” and not effectively enforcing the law. The United States finds itself on the cusp of being a failed society.
As a therapist or psychologist, how do you know when to listen more and "shut up" and when to actually "speak up" more? If you find yourself doing too much of those how do you get yourself to do more of the other?
Let the patient ramble on, unless you have a question. They will look at you for feedback when they’re ready. You will get more by listening than interrupting.
“Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.”
-- Maurice Switzer 
What are the wrong reasons for an abortion?
An inability to keep one’s legs together or to say no. Waiting too long to make the decision, is my favorite. Any time you murder the helpless, for no moral or ethical reason, is a wrong reason.

The attack is imminent…
What are some ways to deal with rude employees in a business setting?
Ask for a manager and let them know what’s going on. If the manager is rude, ask for an owner, or you have the right to go elsewhere for business. If they work for you, excuse them from the setting and fire them later. Respect should be upfront in a business setting.
What does it mean to see another version of yourself seated in your previous position?
Is the other version of you still alive? You are either dead or having an “out of body” experience. Hope for the latter.
Why do people want to communicate better?

Probably for better understanding? If they’re so hot on communicating better, try meeting face-to-face and having a real conversation. Turn off your phone and focus. Pretend like you’re actually listening to them, and are interested in what they’re saying. Ask copious questions. You know, face-to-face, like back in the day. 

What is a personal rule, and why should we have them?
Personal rules are usually ethical. A personal “code of ethics” are rules which define who and why you are to those around you. They know what to expect from you.
“A person has numerous resources available for learning including observing nature and witnessing how other people behave. We can examine other people's lives to find clues on how to live, but ultimately we must develop a personal code of living a sterling existence.”
-- Kilroy J. Oldster
Can you force someone to take something for free?
Only if you’re socialists, and even then you’ll have an argument until you bring up the subject of “gulags.”
Do some things feel pointless to do?
Marriage. Been there, done that. It is a pointless exercise where, in the end, she ends up with the elevator and you end up with the shaft. I’ve been living in sin for almost 20 years now, and the point is so much more relaxing.
Is there a way to not be in the hot seat?
Keep your pie hole shut.
What should I do if my teacher asks me what I want to be when I grow up?
Keep looking at her cleavage. When she asks what you’re doing, keep your eyes on the prize and say, “I’m thinking about what I want to be.” If she asks what you’ve decided, tell her. “A bra.” It is rude, but it will get a chuckle.
How many people’s lives are worth the life of the most important person in your life?

It would depend on if they’re trying to kill the person in question. If so, all of them. 
“The rifle itself has no moral stature since it has no will of its own. Naturally, it may be used by evil men for evil purposes, but there are more good men than evil, and while the latter cannot be persuaded to the path of righteousness by propaganda, they can certainly be corrected by good men with rifles.”
-- Jeff Cooper
Why do people often mistake self-confidence syndrome as a neurodevelopmental problem when in fact it is a condition of lack of mental development?
They aren’t psychology majors? According to the current Administration, however, we are allowed to redefine things, like “economic recession” and “economic depression”, to soften the fact that we’re all being screwed. So, stand by for news on syndromes. Hell, I’m still having issues with the fact I’m living with a “birthing parent” and not a woman. As a woman, she sees this as completely stupid rhetoric. I try not to judge, but I’m afraid I have to agree, that many suffer from a lack of mental development.
What does “keep looking up” mean?
Keep your hands in your pockets. Or, it could mean, to keep your eyes on the prize. Keep moving upward, to glory.
How much do we know?
Not much. When we look at the possibility of alien visitation, what we “know” is relatively insignificant to the visitors. They could probably snap their fingers and snuff us out, yet we worry about Russia launching nuclear weapons. How stupid are we?

We have been learning that making definite statements can come back to haunt us when some brainiac proves the statement to be wrong. It is what it is until it isn’t, and more academicians are prefacing finding with this, more and more.

How much do we know? We will, in time, find out more than we now know. What we may never know, while we live, is whether God exists. Atheists and theists insist on arguing, at times vehemently, a point that neither of them can prove. We don’t even know enough to know when we sound like jackasses braying at each other. With all we do know, we still are just like pigs looking at a wristwatch, wondering.
What can help the aged to be happy and content?
If they’re aged, they should have learned by now. They have to make the effort because nothing you can do will help unless it’s what they want. So, the best bet is to ask them.
How do I get my love for art back after struggles with Instagram, years of art school, and a competitive attitude from my community?
So, you’ve allowed Instagram, art school, and the community, to dictate to you what you should or should not like? I’ve got nothing for you. No one dictates my likes or my few dislikes. What you need to do is make the conscious choice to ignore morons and like what you want. I’m not sure what I do if I stopped liking art. Galleries give me a sense of peace.
“You can wait for others to decide your fate, or you can master your own destiny. Just know that others seldom have very much planned for your future happiness, so the do-it-yourself approach may just be your best bet.”
-- Anthon St. Maarten


Editor's Note
(Re: disclaimer cum "get out of jail free" card)

Before you go getting your panties in a bunch, it is essential to understand that this is just an opinion site and, as such, can be subjected to scrutiny by anyone with a differing opinion. It doesn't make either opinion any more right or wrong than the other. An opinion, presented in this context, is a way of inciting others to think and, hopefully, to form opinions of their own, if they haven't already done so. This is also why, occasionally, I will present an "opinion" just to stir an emotional pot. Where it may sound like I agree with the statements made, I'm more interested in getting others to consider an alternate viewpoint. 

It is my fervent hope that we keep open and active minds when reading opinions and while engaging in peaceful and constructive discussion, in an arena of mutual respect, concerning those opinions put forth. After over twenty years with military intelligence, I have come to believe engaging each other in this manner and in this arena is the way we will learn tolerance and respect for differing beliefs, cultures, and viewpoints.

We all fall from grace, some more often than others; it is part of being human. God's test for us is what we learn from the experience, and what we do afterward.

Pastor Tony spent 22 years with the United States Air Force Intelligence as a planner, analyst, briefer, instructor, and, finally, a senior manager. He spent 17 years, following his service career, working with the premier, world-renowned, Western Institutional Review Board helping to protect the rights of human subjects involved in pharmaceutical research.
Ordained 1n 2013 as an "interfaith" minister, he founded the Congregation for Religious Tolerance in response to intolerance shown by Christians toward peaceful Islam. As the weapon for his war on intolerance he chose the pen, and wages his "battle" in the guise of the Congregation's official online blog, The Path, of which he is both author and editor. "The Path" offers a vehicle for commentary and guidance concerning one's own personal, spiritual, path toward peace and the final destination for us all. He currently resides in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where he volunteered as the lead chaplain at a regional medical center.

Feel free to contact Pastor Tony:  tolerantpastor@gmail.com